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randomspanishgu · May 18, 2008, 11:09 PM

Well, my sex partner sometimes bleeds after our sex sessions. Granted they are great and fun times, after the whole thing is done, she says she sometimes feels too sore that she can't even . Now, She will orgasm around 2-3 times before I can go once, so I know she's at least enjoying it at the time,the sessions are usually around 20-30 minutes since it usually takes me awhile to go. Is there anything I can do to help this? She says I'm somewhat too big for her, I was doing a little research and the average circuference of a male penis is around 4.5-5.0 inches, well mine is about 6.2, so if that is the case, Is there anything I can do to help ease the process, I mean she's definitely turned on before penetration all the time, I usually start by kissing/fingering/oral and she's usually very wet by then and I try and widen my fingers while I finger her to help ease the sides to spread and make some room. I just don't want her having to be in pain a thing to cause her to not look forward to during our sex sessions.

Choux · May 19, 2008, 10:50 AM

It could be that you are having intercourse close to the time of her period... hence the appearance of some blood. That happens.

Female genitals are very tough, they have to be.

She can discuss this matter with her obgyne at her next appointment. :)

randomspanishgu · May 19, 2008, 11:38 AM

Well she had her period 2 weeks ago, so it's a good amount of time after her period to where blood shouldn't appear. She currently is living a promiscuous life style so her other partner doesn't seem to have the problem, but she says he's definitely doesn't have as much girth as me, but also she doesn't nearly as much either, So I give her both more joy and more pain, is there any way to fix this problem at all?

Synnen · May 19, 2008, 12:48 PM

She NEEDS to talk to her gynacologist about it.

This is not something easy to diagnose over the internet--her gynacologist can see what may or may not be going on with an exam.

Since you admit she is promiscuous, I hope that for YOUR sake you are wearing a condom.

randomspanishgu · May 19, 2008, 04:30 PM

Yes, always, we are like best friends too, so she tells me who she sleeps with as well as making sure they are all packing protection. So I know to trust her that way. Just to clarify though, So its nothing that I can personally do to aid or fix the situation then?

Fr_Chuck · May 19, 2008, 04:46 PM

Originally Posted by randomspanishgu

yes, always, we are like best friends too, so she tells me who she sleeps with aswell as making sure they are all packing protection. so i know to trust her that way. Just to clarify though, So its nothing that I can personally do to aid or fix the situation then?

I am sorry, "they are all packing" where did I mess the part about you and her using protection??

Synnen · May 19, 2008, 05:49 PM

In the "Yes, always" part, Padre.

I don't know if it's something you personally can do or not. I'm not her, I'm not in her body, and I'm certainly not a medical professional--which is what I think she needs to figure this out.

Seriously... I'd suggest she talk to her doctor about it. Doctors have heard EVERYTHING, believe me, and a doctor would be able to see what might be causing it.