[christoz79]

I am 28 and she is 27.we were together for 2,5 years and we broke 2 months before.things got rough between us,we fighted all the time for no important reason.so I got bored and stopped doing things for the realationship,but didn't expect the end even though sometimes I had thought of breaking up with her.however I couldn't do so because I really loved her and believed that we could fix things between us.she bacame less and less attracted to me and we broke.she was the only woman that I ever thought of having family,with.and she did too... we met after the break up,we had sex three times in her place and we were sort of dating.she had kept a photo of us in her bedroom and said to me that she has a good feeling about how our relationship will evolve in the future.I stopped calling because she said that she doesn't want to return for now.. I can't stop thinking of her and our common future... (if there will be such a thing).icannot move forward.what should I do...

[talaniman]

I stopped calling because she said that she doesn't want to return for now..
Thats great, as this is truly over, so accept it.
I can't stop thinking of her and our common future... (if there will be such a thing).icannot move forward.what should I do...
To move forward with your life, you must get off your butt and rebuild your life, that you enjoy without her in it. Have no contact with her at all, and that means texts, phones, or letters. Not only must you not contact her, you must ignore any attempt by her, to contact you. Harsh, but necessary to stop false hope, and confusion, and drama.

Clink on the links in my signature, for some insights and suggestions, that will get you through this break up. Sorry for your loss, but time will heal you.