[jdfalski]

I wish you all well

[Chery]

I'm really sorry about your situation and I beg you not to give up.
Within your posts, you never mentioned the father or if you are still in contact with your family.

Your words here sound so final - and it scares me. What about your baby?
How about relocating to another city and getting to know some decent people who will accept you for who you are and not what you did in the past. We all have made mistakes in our lives and have had to accept the consequences without giving up.

I'm sure that there are support groups or church groups that would be willing to guide you in the right direction. Not all is so bleak - look at alternatives and try your best. Giving up is easy, but standing tall, and proving that you have as much of a right to happiness as anyone else takes a little work. I hope you make the right choice.

Stay with us. Vent, get angry, but please don't tell us to get bent - facts to hurt, but there is help out there and it takes that first step from you to make it work.

I'm dying of cancer within the next 5 months or so, have a daughter and grandson that I dearly love, and it really makes me angry that I have no choice in this fate, but I'm not at all thinking that the whole world is against me or that I should just end it all right now. Hey, I plan on living life and carrying on until I take my last breath, no matter what. I've gone through a lot more in my life and will still keep on fighting.

So, please stay here and talk to me...

[jdfalski]

I think you got me mixed up with someone else... Even thou I am battleing my own sadness I am not going anywhere. God bless you and I wish you well

[Chery]

I think you got me mixed up with someone else... Even thou I am battleing my own sadness I am not going anywhere. God bless you and I wish you well

Maybe the phrase in 'broken hearted' that was so short mixed me up, but not who I was posting to. This sounded as if someone was saying 'goodbye'.. and I am glad that I was wrong in assuming this - real glad. You can PM me any time you feel you need someone to talk to, and I'm sure that other members will be along to give you hints as to what type of groups to seek out for assistance.

So, do you know if you are going to have a boy or girl? And, I'd still like to know about your family and if you might consider moving to somewhere to start over.

Thank you for your well wishes.

Sending you a great big Virtual Hug!

[Depressed in MO]

When I put my curser over this thread, it mentioned something about you having trouble with your husband (but looking at the other posts, I did assume you were a man). I won't elaborate because obviously it was edited. The only reason I am mentioning anything at all is just in case it was a computer glich and was indeed something you did not actually post.

I've read your posts as well and urge you not to give up.

[jdfalski]

Again... Im not the person you think I am... I don't have a baby. I started to leave a message but then I chickened out then I just wished everyone well instead... But then I went back and left a message anyway... I titled it "mid life cheater" (I think)... I am however broken hearted

[Chery]

I also just noticed that your husband had cheated on you in the past and that you have the feeling that something is missing in your life now to sort of make it 'equal'...

There are just so many bits and pieces in different posts that it is difficult to keep up, but if you love him and plan on staying with him, then talking about how you feel and maybe planning something you two can do together to have some fun and forget the past for a while might refresh life for both of you.

Talk about common goals and work on them together as best as you can to make it work.

Wish you lots of luck, dear.

None of us is absolutely perfect, but we can work on tolerance. It is a choice we have to make - after looking at the alternatives.

[jdfalski]

Thank you chery. I don't think I will act on any thing I just miss that "new love" that me must have felt... I didn't miss it before thow... that's the weird part... I don't even think I am trying to even the score... I just want to be happy inside and I am still dealing with things the best that I can... I just feel sad and lonely... Even thou were together...
I love the fact that you have such a strong out look on life considering the new you shared with me... The world needs more people like you... Thank you for your thoughts

[Chery]

Welcome dear. That's what we are here for, so vent your thoughts all you want. We make a great sounding-board and don't judge.

[talaniman]

https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/search...archid=2785090
Just so we all can get on the same page.