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tennisgirl · May 8, 2008, 03:20 PM

:confused: I am in the middle of a friendship problem. Let me start at the beginning. My friend and I got into a fight with one of our friends. About a day later I decided to talk to her about it. So I talked to her and we made up. But my other friend dose'nt want to make up with her and about a day later she said I don't care anymore and I am not going to make up with her. So later my friend asked why she was avoiding her and I told her the resson. Even after I told her that she wanted to make up. And now the two friends are saying really mean thing about one and another. And I am stuck in the middle of it. And one friend is saying that the other one is making up rumors about me and even some about her. What should I do?

ChihuahuaMomma · May 8, 2008, 04:12 PM

GET OUT OF THE MIDDLE. I am actually in a very similar situation. Except I am one of the friends. I hang out with one friend, and don't mind her hanging out with my ex-friend. I was the one that introduced them. Don't believe that she is spreading rumors, go to the source. Don't talk about anyone. Hang out with each girl individually, and don't mention the other in your time together. If she brings it up, say, "Let's talk about something else." You ease yourself out of the middle.

tennisgirl · May 8, 2008, 06:28 PM

Originally Posted by ChihuahuaMomma

GET OUT OF THE MIDDLE. I am actually in a very similar situation. Except I am one of the friends. I hang out with one friend, and don't mind her hanging out with my ex-friend. I was the one that introduced them. Don't believe that she is spreading rumors, go to the source. Don't talk about anyone. Hang out with each girl individually, and don't mention the other in your time together. If she brings it up, say, "Let's talk about something else." You ease yourself out of the middle.

Thank you. I really neaded advice:)

ChihuahuaMomma · May 8, 2008, 07:50 PM

Your welcome, hope that helped.

tennisgirl · May 9, 2008, 12:03 PM

Ya it did. My friends are not talking to each other and not talking to me about it. The only problem now is that one friend says come sit with me and the other is saying no sit with me.

ChihuahuaMomma · May 9, 2008, 02:28 PM

Sit with one friend one day and the other the next day. Or tell that them that if they both want to sit with you everyday, then they have to sit together with you, and learn to be civil towards one another.

tennisgirl · May 9, 2008, 06:54 PM

I should have thought of that myself. Thank you

ChihuahuaMomma · May 9, 2008, 06:57 PM

Eh well. All of us need help sometimes. Hope things work out for the best.