[kencoolguy]

I been with this girl for almost a year now!We had a great relationship except that her mother didn't like me,I was kid of a bad boy then!Anyway,the drama first started aroung are 9 moth togheter,when I saw her I always had a bad vibe like was not all on me like before,like I felt she was less affectionate!She didn't call me all the time,she started to be inconsitent and we were seeing less each other and whaen I ask her about it.I said I feel something wrong but she denied the distance!OK now let cut down to the real problem:Before she left for her trip to cuba,we saw each other before she left and I felt like she was not like all on me like she going to miss but she say I'm so going to miss you but her action does not match anyways(THE PROBLEM):: when she came back she didn't call me for 2 week THEN I left her because I thought she was playing games.I foung out by her friend that she wanned time to thingk and she tought that I wasent loving her,she what someone that really love her that why SHE WAS ACTING DISTANT AND DIDDNT CALL ME THEN I KNEW I MADE A MISTAKE by leaving her!After that I found out that she was partying with her friend and other guys and seeing other guys!I started to freak out and she try to talk to me but my massive ego push her aways because she was seeing oother guy!Then after ifound out SHE WAS DATING AN OTHER GUY AND SHE SAID I LOVE IM BUT I LOVE U TOO!Then I broke down and its killing me!How can she see an other guy after a year togueter whitout even seeing each other for 1month and a half to talk try to fix thing!She say she still love me but why see seeing this guy? She say she still love me!Everyone she she for doing that wiout seeing each other,she didn't cheated on me I know that and I know its after I ditch her that she started going out with the other guy!Iwant her back SO BADLY I don't know want to do!Iknow she still love me but the thing is she seeing tha other guy!HELP PLEASE!!

[Morning Blaze]

I can associate with her mother not liking you. Without you knowing it that could have also put a strain on the relationship. My boyfriend and I broke up because his family didn't like me. You should probably give her a bit of space, If she still loves you and your meant to be together then it will work out eventually.

Did you tell her the reasons you broke up with her (what your fears were). You could just tell her you made a mistake because you felt her pull a way and didn't know why but if she is really happy now, all you can do is tell her your happy for her ( Be happy for her) Sometimes the hardest ting in life is to let go of the person you love.

[talaniman]

You sound young, and honestly young people have no experience fixing things, especially when its easier to move to someone else, leaving a confused ex behind. For whatever reason, its time for you to move on also. You may have been more emotionally invested than she was. It happens.