[Mommy061007]

Me and my boyfriend have been together for 1yr and a half and we have a 2month old baby he likes 2 have sex all the tyme up to 5 times a day and I don't I have sex like once every 2days or so is that normal? He happens to think I'm cheating

[450donn]

You have a two month old baby is what happened. Apparently he is another insensitive clod and does not understand that you are probably still worn out from the pregnancy and having to deal with the baby 24/7. Sorry, I don't have much patience for people like your boy friend, who want it all and still have no commitments.

[anet]

5 * aday = ubnormal, I think. Once a day or once in two days sound normal to me.

[JBeaucaire]

If cheating means "your sexual energy is syphoned in a direction other than him"... then yes, tell him you are cheating. 80% of the parenting of newborns fall to the mother, so you are cheating with your baby.

Having a baby claw at you (no offense, you know what I mean) greatly reduces how much you enjoy having your man paw at you. It's normal, and I bet you knew that already.

You need to get your energy level up... any physically exerting activity you can take up and enjoy may improve your libido as a side effect. For instance, men who play in basketball or football leagues find their sexual energy is up about 4-6 hours after playing. Think of some things that might work this way for you.

[donf]

Mom,

If he is after you five times a day, tell him he needs to find another hobby to fill his time!

Sex is fun, if it wasn't, no one would want any part of it. Tell your boyfriend, he needs to grow-up, marry you and become an equal partner in the Parenting world!

[ang8318]

As all the previous posts say... you have a two month old, its hard to want sex/enjoy it when your nipples are sore from breastfeeding, just when you are "ready" and "in the moment" your little one starts to scream because he/she has a dirty diaper or are uncomfortable, and you are so tired from being up all night, that you just do not have the energy to do it once a day, let alone 5 times a day. Talk to him, maybe switch roles... have him stay up with the baby at night, change the diapers etc. then bug him for sex 5 times a day. I know what you are going through, I have a 4 month old, tell your man to relax... as your baby gets older things will get better, but until then... he needs to respect your decision, and attempt to understand why you feel the way you do.

[mustard_seed]

Read "The Power of Now' Eckhart Tolle.