If you think he's doing these things, it's more likely he IS than he isn't. We can only guess, but that's my reminder.
Meanwhile, you really have bigger fish to fry than your boyfriend issues. That baby needs your undivided attention... preferably the undivided attention of two mature adults who are ready and able to raise him. Make sure you give this child every chance at a great life.
Make sure you seriously consider all your options, including adoption. Both your life and the child's could potentially be 1000% better over the next 20 years if you're strong enough to seriously consider it.
Otherwise, give this child your full attention starting now. It is critical.
Good luck.
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