[tressy]

My boss is very friendly with me and me too. I used to go to his house and his wife is also very friendly with me.

Last month I went to his house together after work and I had my dinner in his house since his wife invited me.

I was about to leave and she requested me to stay back since it is late.

Night she took care of me,but something unavoidable happened in between. I lost my skin(virginity) in the night. She encouraged her hubby and we had a three some'
I also enjoyed it.


I am getting married in next three months. Can I keep it secret?

Or shall I tell my boy in the first night?
Please help me dear friends ?

[kp2171]

Don't understand much of what you are saying...

I get you slept with your boss's wife (you are female, right?), and then with the boss and his wife.

Don't understand "losing your skin"...

And I'm guessing you are asking if you should tell your fiancée or not...

Well, that's up to you and your ability to live with a lie. Not a good way to start a marriage at all. A person cannot punish a mate for their past before they were dating... but you cheated on your mate. Period.

And since cheaters often cheat again, I think your mate deserves to know who he is marrying and deserves to make his own decision based on reality.

I can't tell you that you made a bad choice. Its your body, your life, your choice. I can tell you that cheating on a fiancée isn't a good sign for the relationship.

And that you entitled it "boss messed up" means you take little to no responsibility for your own actions. YOU messed up.

[Choux]

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Creative writing gone horribly wrong? :)

[Handyman2007]

Sounds as if you wanted it to all happen. Come clean,be honest...

[Fr_Chuck]

Well first employees don't go home with their boses and most certainly never stay all night in their homes.

It is obvious that a sexaual arrangement was agreed to by everyone's actions.

So you cheated on your boyfriend, since he may not want to marry someone who is willing to sleep with other people, yes he needs to know.