[aaliya]

Well, I'm yet another love struck teenager who's trying to get back with my ex boyfriend. We met through my cousin and he also turned out to be a family friend that I was unaware of. In the beginning we just got into chatting online. As time passed we started growing affection for each other and then we got together. It's been almost 6 months perhaps, and we've been a serious couple. 3 weeks back he came over to my house and told me that he wants to end the relationship as he "doesn't understand" love. I felt this was a stupid reason to break up and I asked him to get back together. But then I realized that he was serious. But the weird thing is he isn't dating anyone nor does he have another girl in mind.
After the break up I was quite rude to him and said all sorts of nasty stuff. So he called me up and told me that it hurt his feelings and that he just wants to be friends with me like before. I agreed with him, but I can't stop my feelings for him. We're "just friends" now but I want him back. I feel depressed and frustrated. He's very nice to me, but I want him to love me again. Please give me some suggestions to make him love me again.

[talaniman]

There are no secret potions, or super strategies, to change someone's mind. That's how he feels, and for whatever reason you'll have to accept it. Sorry, but I think you have just learned a very valuable life lesson, love hurts, when they other person doesn't feel the same as you do.