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    Apr 29, 2008, 04:51 PM
    Lying Husband
    My husband lys to me like it's no big deal! The lys range from how much his paycheck was to the porn he is "not" ordering but shows up on our bill every month and blames it on my son... his stepson who is 12. The funny thing is that he always gets caught. We also have 2 small children who I stay home and take care of, I quit my job so that he could accomplish all his goals... because he would make more money doing it. Honestly I feel like I am going to go crazy from lack of self-esteem to becoming very untrusting of my husband, I have always tried to be the best wife and mother I could, I am not perfect, but I have delt with so much from him and I feel like I am going to loose it completely. I have to remain happy and appear as though there is nothing wrong in front of the kids, but at night when I try to talk to him he either gets mad and says mean things to me or completely ignores what I am saying to him.

    Some of his lying has been drug related as well, I am scared but I would not be able to finanicaly support myself and children... I don't know what to do.

    Please help

    Thanks! :(
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    Apr 29, 2008, 05:07 PM
    Easy to fit, set up some rules,
    1. he brings the check home to you to cash
    2. the money ( budget amount) is put into a household fund * he can't write money out of it
    3. he is allowed a budget amount for his expenses
    4. he gives up all of his credit cards

    He attends a AA and/or porn addiction meetings
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    Apr 29, 2008, 05:45 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by Fr_Chuck
    Easy to fit, set up some rules,
    1. he brings the check home to you to cash
    2. the money ( budget amount) is put into a household fund * he can't write money out of it
    3. he is allowed a budget amount for his expenses
    4. he gives up all of his credit cards

    He attends a AA and/or porn addiction meetings
    OR he gets out.
    I rarely advise divorce, except in the case of abuse or addictions. Either is destructive and needs to be dealt with harshly.

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