[thisismylife1]

OK I first met this girl when she had moved to my school. Right when I had seen her I knew she was the one. From that day on my love for her grew and grew. We became friends and started talking. I finnaly asked her out and she said that she had to think about it. So a couple of days went by and we kept talking and talking I asked her to the movies and she said yes I rwaly thought I had found the right girl. Well the time had come and she said no she didn't want to go out with me so I said OK. We where still friends though and I still loved her and wanted her. One day I went over her house and she had toled me that her and another guy (who is skinny and more atractive) had been over there house and that they had sex. I acted like it didn't bother me but when I went home that day I was crying all night. I know that he only wants to go out with her for sex but I want to go out with her because I really love her not because I want to do that stuff to her. Now I'm really upset and praying that they don't go out I really need some help what should I do?

[ISneezeFunny]

Hey I just answered to this same question in your other post.

[o NitSuA o]

That really sucks dude. Unfortunately from what I read she only considers you a friend... but what I was shocked about was that she told you she had sex with another guy when she knew you like her. I know you feel betrayed, and I think it is time you moved on and let her go...

By the way how old is this girl and how old are you?

[blacksinz]

Ouch dude. This can't be helped all u can do is hope that she will realize what a great guy u are compared to the other guy. So now just stay friends and act as if nothing has happened

[bradysmama17]

ok i first met this girl when she had moved to my school. right when i had seen her i knew she was the one. from that day on my love for her grew and grew. we became friends and started talking. i finnaly asked her out and she said that she had to think about it. so a couple of days went by and we kept talking and talking i asked her to the movies and she said yes i rwaly thought i had found the right girl. well the time had come and she said no she didnt want to go out with me so i said ok. we where still friends though and i still loved her and wanted her. one day i went over her house and she had toled me that her and another guy (who is skinny and more atractive) had been over there house and that they had sex. i acted like it didnt bother me but when i went home that day i was crying all nite. i know that he only wants to go out with her for sex but i want to go out with her because i realy love her not because i want to do that stuff to her. now im realy upset and praying that they dont go out i really need some help what should i do?

Tell her how you really feel about her, and let her know that he is using her for sex only