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That's exactly what I plan on doing... I just hate how after all this time the truth finally came out and it all just came to me and hit me hard. But now I'm working on starting over and putting it...

I do have a job lol its been almost a year since we have been broken up. What I just posted was recently about a week or so ago. And I have no hope's nor intentions on getting back with her after...

Hey everyone its been a while since I've been on lol. I have been busy with school and everything. So everything has been fine up until she sent me a text basically arguing why we can't be friends....

Yea I agree with all of you! I wasn't planning on texting back anyway because there is no need for me too. It seems like she just wants to know if I'm still there as cozyk said. I've been done...

Update: So I have been very happy with my life and have moved on finally without her lol Im doing a lot better going out, meeting new people, and just having a good time. I get a text today from my...

All in all its just downright wrong! What kind of 25 year old creep would be with a 14 year old? Definitely a pedophile!

Um this definitely cannot be real.

Who in their right mind would even allow this to happen?

Don't worry about it, just keep ignoring her calls, texts, and continue to heal and live your life. Your on the right track =]

Move on without him, he can't just fall in love with a new girl right away. You say your doing better by not being with him so continue to keep it that way. Heal yourself and go out with your...

I felt the same thing. It will soon fade after time.

Post them on here or when you have alone time let your emotions out to yourself it might hurt since you have been building it up inside but letting them all out will make you feel a lot better! ...

I know exactly what your going through. I hated how I gave my ex my all and somehow it still wasn't enough. It seemed like everything she said was a lie when she left me. I know its hard at first...

Don't answer the phone simple as that and continue no contact.

That was exactly what I wanted to say but just couldn't seem to write it out. Lol

So she broke up with you and slept with someone else that same night? She loves you more then him, meaning she loves both of you but you just a little more? It seems like she is just making stupid...

Even though you sent the email to her telling her you will not be weak anymore and continue to be strong it still tells her that you think of her and not letting it go. I made the same mistake...

Hey A4 one of the main reasons it keeps coming back to you and bothering you is because, you believe everything you guys shared was perfect and could easily be like that again. You say you want her...

First off welcome to AMHD!

After reading your post in my opinion I believe you should stay with your current partner. Your ex all of a sudden realizes that you're the love of his life just...

I personally think you should tell them again that to please not discuss or bring up her name and leave her out of the conversation. If it keeps happening you should go out with other friends and...

Well your doing the right thing by saying it on here! And the right thing by not being with her!

Then give her that time and let her be. While you go out with friends and get yourself together.

You just said both your parents are "perfectly cool with the idea" then right after that you said but both of your dad's think its troublesome?

You did the right thing plain and simple. No one's heart should be played with ever.

We both talked about it and resolved it.

Update: For some reason I feel like I can move on I just don't want to its because I really care about her and love her so much and now she is making...

Hey everyone I know I haven't been on here in a while I've been busy with school and everything. I'm doing really well its been 8 months since we have been broken up, the only one thing that gets to...

I just want to say thank you to everyone!
I read that Ebook that was sent to me and let me say I have a different outlook on everything now and feel really good about it I think it was something I...

LOL! Yea she is worth is and all I want is a second chance just to take things slow to see if its what we both truly want she is just scared and confused and acts like she knows what she wants when...

Thank you so much! I am 19 turning 20 and she is 17 tunring 18 lol I don't know if that's how you can tell she is a little immature lol... should I text her and tell her all of this or wait until she...

That sounds good I want to try again one of these days but she really needs to grow up and think about what she had and stop thinking about being scared and all that. One time she was like I don't...

Like for me right now there is no other option besides getting back with her and fighting as hard as I can for her. I don't really think I can get hurt again I don't think anything will top when she...

Wow that's good! I really want to try things again she just has a mind set on pretending she is happy and starting to hang out with people she shouldn't be hanging out with. Every 2 weeks she will...

Update: I still feel the same about her, I've started to get into basketball which I have played for a long time but stopped. Starting to go to the gym more and going out with friends plus work. But...

Yea... I'm going to keep sticking to NC its just for some reason any girl I talk to or anything I do reminds me of my ex... It just came to me hard today and I can't seem to get her out of my head. ...

Last night I spent the night at this girl's house the one I met, and after staying the night I realized that I started to miss my ex again for some reason like I felt like I should be with her. Part...

That's a good point...

:Update
So my ex texted me after almost 3 weeks I STILL HAVE NOT CONTACTED HER BACK.. and she says how come I'm just ignoring her. She said "This all sucks I hate having you not wanting to know...

Update:

Ok its been about 2 weeks and 3 days NC with my ex and it feels good! I have actually just ran into an old friend who I haven't seen for 7 years and we actually started to talk. Right...

Im feeling way better than before now things that I know or things I find out about her do not bother me at all!! =] She is talking to some guy she barely knows apparently. And she says she is...

Thanks, yea we have been through the arguing to try to get back together well basically I was the one who was doing that asking for another chance to change things but it just kept getting worse! ...

Update: Doing a lot better its been a week with no contact between us and it feels good! Just going out and hanging out with friends, working, and going to the gym. I also might be buying a new car...

Lol well I'm doing good so far I think she is trying to get me jealous in some way by putting away messages up on aim saying she is going out with her friend and a couple guys or writing something...

Thanks to everyone for the advice!

She can get it as long as they have been married for 2 years
And yes she is completely illegal but I'm not the type of person who would do that I just think it's a huge mistake them getting married...

She is also the type who goes out to clubs every Friday or Saturday to dance with other guys while he is not there and flirts with them and gets there numbers. But I really think she is the type who...

My friend has been dating this girl for just about a year and 3 months now. They have been on and off 4 times because she thinks she can do whatever she wants and basically bosses him around. She...

Feeling a lot better since I haven't had any contact with her!
Today I got to drive my friends 09 zo6 corvette it was amazing and definitely took my mind off things lol

Lol she asked me the other day if we could be friends or not at all I didn't contact her because I'm not going to she will get the message after a while lol

Yea I actually did put her in my...

If she wants a break give it to her it's the best thing you can do don't contact her don't do anything just go out with your friends and have a good time. If she says she doenst want this to be the...

Thanks I will definitely update from time to time, but for now we won't be texting each other or anything for a while!! Lol well mainly me I put her number in my phone listed as don't break NC...

She contacted me today saying sorry about everything and saying karma hit her back or something like that saying she has felt bad and says she wants to be friends for now I didn't respond I just...