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In addition to the above, she started speaking last night, saying I didn't want to talk to her. But she wanted me to help her set up her new phone because she didn't know who else to ask.

Then she...

She's added me on Facebook, and then butted into a conversation between me and my friend? I don't get what she's playing at

Hey everyone. Been real busy lately, lots of work, kept my mind occupied vastly. Anyway, my ex made contact with me via MSN. She popped up saying "Hey." I said Hey back. She didn't say anything after...

I know what I "should be doing", but I know what I "want to be doing".

It's kind of forceful, and any indication from my ex, or potential sign makes me over-analyse, which I know I shouldn't.
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Hmm, it's hard not too. Things have got a bit easier, but it's like when I get a little bit info, it means a lot more than its worth.

I don't know if it's "false hope" or just general info. But I...

Yeah I suppose, I mean I know I shouldn't over analyse this, but it's just a glimmer of something I want as crazy as it seems - but yeah, I need to focus in one direction.

Cut all forms of contact completely, by contacting you're not healing, you're going around in a vicious circle, which will only intensify the hurt.

Your ex has moved on right? Your ex is getting...

Hey again, just another little update on what's going on. I was out at the weekend, and a friend of my ex's, and myself, I seen at a club. We got talking and he ended up saying "i left her alone when...

Personal experience, stay away. The whole "i don't want to get hurt", it shows that the past is still there, the problems are still there right? She's hot, cold, hot, cold, when in reality I think...

Yeah I suppose so. I'm not short of offers at the minute, be honestly don't feel ready for anything like that. Things bug me less than they would in the past. It's been nearly a month and half.

I...

Not what I ideally want, when in an ideal world I would like to get back with her. As crazy as that may seem.

Yeah, but still, she'll think bad of me because of it no doubt.

Do you's think it's worth leaving my ex a text message apologising for my friends display early?

Hey! A little update on where I'm at, at the minute. I've been sticking to NC since I broke it for my ex's birthday. Since then, I've had a few ups and downs.

Seen a few pictures appear in...

Right, I wished her Happy Birthday in advance. Left it at that, and got a reply saying thanks etc. Leaving it at that, and now I'm going to NC all the way.

Hopefully the wounds will mend sooner...

Hey, I suppose. However what's interesting is that I'm being viewed as the dumper, and her the dumpee. As it all started when I told her, we're going to need a break because things are going back to...

Which I'm doing my best to do. It's her birthday next week, I think I'll send her a happy birthday with no intention of sparking any conversation or getting anything back. NC will stay afterwards,...

Hey, thanks for the replies man!

She's very confusing at the minute, giving mixed signals, she apparently doesn't care anymore, then she gets all "lovey" kind of. We ain't spoke, but I'm unblocked...

Threads merged.

Hey, already posted on these forums. 3 weeks since me and my ex broke off, for the second time. First being Dec, until Feb this year. Now it's happened again. Anyway I've stuck to...

Hey guys thanks for your replies!

I do agree, that we had far too many arguments. I'm not saying I'm perfect, or claiming it's not me. But we knew it was her temper, that caused the majority of...

Understand that, I'd always try and get things fixed instead of "sweeping it under the carpet." Because like last time, things would build up again. We'd work things out in the beginning, but things...

Hey everyone. Wow where to start. Began seeing my ex October 2008, lasted until December 2009. During this period, we had 3 quarters of it, were perfect. She ended it twice however, stating it on...