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I'm sorry your going through this. 7 yrs is a long time and you developed a deep connection with your ex, and that connection is gone after the break up. Its scary because its been 7 yrs since you...

I would talk to her about it. Have a serious talk with her, and don't hold anything back. I know this is scary because it could change the course of the relationship forever, may even start the end...

I'm sorry your going through this. This sounds smiliar to what I went through, but the roles were switched. I was with a girl for over 3 yrs, I was her 1st everythin. We were both really in love,...

You need to let this girl go. I've been through/am going through a similar (not to your extent though!! ) situation. I was madly in love with this girl I was with for over 3 yrs. Towards the end, it...

I feel for you man. I was with a girl for over 3 yrs, then she dumped me. We were both really in love with each other, but she just changed. Being in a relationship wasn't as important to her anymore...

I also think you are putting way too much thought into it. She didn't say she missed you or wanted to see you, but think about it man. If you were on a vacation with your boys would you be a luvvy...

I'm sorry your going through this. Your story is just like the one I went through, except I'm further along than you.

I was with a girl for over 3 yrs when she came at me with "i need a break." I...

Could you or someone please explain this to me? I understand the family and friend love thing, but how does one go from in love with you to loves you but not in love with you anymore?

My girlfriend did this to me also. I was with her for over 3 years, then she wanted a break. I was full of false hope that she would come back and we would be happy again. But we didn't man. She said...

Im sorry your going through this kingjim. I am going through something like this also, but I am a little more ahead in the process than you.

I was with my girlfriend for a little more than 3...

Ive been trying to keep myself busy and it does really work. Time has worked wonders on me, I feel so much better lately. I use to only go a few seconds between thinking of my ex, then it was...

Thanks Tal, that's great advice. So I never answered the little sisters question about what day and time is my graduation. I was really stuck on what to do, part of it was that I didn't want to talk...

I read your thread bella, its helpful that you went through this and I hella appreciate you taking the time out of your day to help me. Thank you. Sometimes random acts of kindness by strangers is...

Yea I'm going to call the mom and talk to her about the whole situation. My only fear is that she doesn't know how big this really is to me. I think her mom thinks that we will get back together, and...

This is great advice, without putting much thought into it, my ex showing up would be worse. I know that if she showed up, my whole day would be ruined. At the same time I really want her family to...

This is a really hard decision. Here's some of the things going through my head. I wanted to quit college many times, but each time my ex and her family would convince me to stick through it. They...

Update guys:
So Ive been doing really good the last few day. Really good actually. I had no bad days since I went full NC with everyone associated with my ex. Its been about a week since NC with her...

I can understand the feeling of wanting to know what the world has to offer and everything, I was that age not too long ago either. But my thing is, that while I was feeling those feelings, I was...

Ive been with her for a little more than 3 years. Im sorry my post is so long, but you've probably got to read the whole thing to fully understand the whole story. Right now it feels like the...

Thanks for your input. She doesn't want me anymore but she doesn't have the guts to tell me straight up, that's what I knew was really up. I feel like I deserve more than this, If you don't want me...

Its really hard to believe right now. I know that time helps, as it has helped me greatly, but I can't imagine myself with someone else. Ive been going out with my friends a lot lately, and Ive seen...

RB I read your thread about your breakup and I see a lot of similarites between our situations. Of course its not 100% dead on, but there's tons of similarites. It gives me so much hope reading your...

Im trying really really hard amicon to do those things. Whenever I saw couples I was always happy for them. I knew what I felt like holding my ladys (my exs) hand and being happy with her, and I...

Thanks amicon, I feel like I have come a long way also. Time does heal, even if its just a tiny bit day by day. I just feel bad sometimes because I have so many reminders of her everywhere. I work...

Everything is hella true that you said. Ive never been in this situation before, so all this pain is brand new to me. I am learning to cope though a lot better, this site and the people on her are a...

Even though its been almost a month, I still don't think the shock has completely worn off yet. I still can't believe that one day its all "i love you so much" and the next day she's gone. It really...

I just read your thread robinboston and its very good to read something that is kind of similar to my situation and going through it not that long ago. I really hope I can laugh at all of this later...

Yea I agree with your statement, just don't know if I like the way I'm changing. I do feel like I've grown as a person in this relationship, but at the same time Im opening myself up to get hurt....

Really I'm not. Or maybe I am now. I was never like this before. Then I found myself getting to be like this after getting with her. I am romantic, but I was never hella emotional until now. I do...

Helping others is always good. I love helping people, and having other people like you guys help me makes me feel reall good. I hate how I give her so much power over me. I feel like NC is going to...

This is a party I wish I wasn't invited to haha. I was reading another post, and it said that hope dies last. This is so very true. This whole "break" gives false hope, I know that when she does come...

Yea I feel like Im going to be on this site for a long time. I have started helping other people who have just gotten dumped also, I find that it helps also. Im really trying to take it one day at a...

Hi heartline. Even though Im a lot less experienced in life as you, and you might think Im still a kid, Im in the same boat as you. (If you read my thread you'll understand). While I am not 100% over...

Wow amicon, you give great advice. A lot of people on this great site give great advice. This site gives me a place to vent, and to come to on those days when I don't feel so strong. And thank all of...

Just to clear things up, my exs little sister is only 1 yr younger than my ex. They're basically the same age. I know its still kind of young, but you also got to realize that I'm still kind of...

Yea I'm starting to wish I would have went NC from not just her, but her whole family day one. Its just so hard, because her little sister is such a close friend to me. And their mom is like a 2nd...

Now the situation gets a little more confusing. So I was texting my exs little sister all day yesterday. Mostly talking about my upcoming graduation from college, I sent her a pix text of me in my...

Its so hard. Im on day 16 of NC and today is one of those days where I don't feel strong. Yesterday was my college graduation festival. I got my cap & gown, ordered my invitations, took my grad...

Im on day 16 of NC. Read my thread to understand my situation. I still think I'm holding out false hope that she will come back after the "break." I feel that the NC cannot truly heal me until I...

It is starting to get easier and easier. While it is still hard, I can now notice the difference. I just have a quick question. Is there any strategies or anything you guys recommend to forget about...

It has now been exactly two weeks of NC. Man is this NC stuff hard. But I have a question, is it still considered NC if I still talk to the little sister? For example, we talked earlier today and she...

Thank all you guys for all the great advice. It really helps hearing from people who have gone this before. I felt really alone for a long time in my pain, but this site really helped me out.

But...

Its not that I'm worried about her next guy, I just don't want anyone to feel the way I feel. Im such an unselfish person, its hella hard for me to be selfish. Even at a time right now when I have...

Yea this is totally unfair for me, as I did not do anything to induce the break. I didn't do her wrong, always let her do whatever, stayed true, and gave her my all. I want another chance to talk to...

Im trying really really hard to get my life back on track. I graduate from college this June with a degree in HR management and corporate management. This should be the happiest time in my life,...

Im not going to lie, I know I'm a nice guy. But sometimes I think Im nice to a fault. Many people mistake kindness for weakness and take advantage of you and use you. I feel really used right now. I...

This is exactly what I told her. That adults who really want to make it work will talk it out and fix it. She kept saying break this and break that. I know I got to go 100% NC but its hard when at...

Wow man u hit everything right on the head. I can't imagine my life without her, and to hear you call her my ex is heart wrenching. I always felt like me and her were always meant to be. A part of me...

So I should just not talk to her all at anymore? The thing I'm scared of the most is that the last memory I have of seeing her is making passionate and beautiful love together. The last thing we told...

My bad if it feels like I'm wallowing, but the pain of the break is still fresh. This was my first true love and I am the type of person who wears their heart on their sleeve kitkat. I give...