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Bruce Eckel has made several of his excellent programing books available online in electronic form for free. Thinking in C++ is an excellent way to not only learn the language, but to learn it right....

So, one more update. I went in and got a complete workup done. HIV was negative but I need to get tested again in a few months, Herpes Type 1 (Cold sores on the mouth) positive, Herpes Type 2...

Break it off with your boyfriend immediately, you are cheating and while you can't really be expected to respect this married guys wife's feelings you damn well should respect your boyfriend's. Yeah...

This definitely is not what you want to hear, but it sounds like this relationship is in the crapper. 4 months into it and already this many problems, I think the guy should cut and run. I wish I had...

I'm going to disagree with the general trend here and advise you to hire a web developer to work something out using Apache, PHP, and MySQL that will run on your intranet. Granted this might sound...

6 Years is not a bad gap at all at your age, even at my tender age of 27 I don't think there would be any problems with me dating a woman 6 years older than me. Now 6 years younger, I've made that...

Wooooooaaaaaa. I didn't make a racial remark, I was talking to her and within 5 minutes brought up the topic of racism and it's effects on black people. As soon as I said it I realized that I would...

I'm not sure but the value of all the stuff probably exceed what could be called a small claim. Laptop was about $1500, SLR Camera was about $600 Digital Camera ~$250. One of the things that is...

I think a lot of that comes from being very unfamiliar with a persons culture and experiences. I was at a party one time and met a really cute black girl. As I have had very little positive contact...

IF your feeling jealousy and a lack of trust it is time to move on. Of course this is probably colored by my recent and still ongoing trip to the hell that is known as a bad relationship, but I...

Make it very clear to him in language that he can not fail to understand that you do not want to be with him and that you will not change your mind about it and tell him to stop calling you. From...

Well, just an update, this ***** has completely ruined my life. Since the day she left I have discovered the following things missing: my laptop, my $600 35mm SLR camera, my digital camera, and DVD's...

Sucks man I can identify, My ex lied to me, probably cheated on me and then lied to me to try to get back together and I still can't stop thinking about her. I can tell you though it will pass. When...

She's gone, I went to the counselor today and she was pretty reassuring that this is not my fault and that my behavior wasn't that much of an issue in this she said around 20 percent my fault and...

Well I talked myself out of the cutting, but my family and friends just helped me smooth out the rough patches after. I do want it to be over, but I also want to be in a good relationship with her....

Well she's out of my house and her number is no longer in my phone book. I've got to accept the fact that even though I want a good stable relationship with her it's not going to happen.

It's been...

I agree with some of your post not all of it. This whole episode has had me reverting to some behaviors that I thought were long gone. The vast majority of the time I'm pretty well adjusted. This...

Ummm no where did I state that she was sleeping with other guys. After the past few days there is no doubt in my mind that she wasn't doing that. She just broke out asserted her independence and as...

No way will your curretn relationship get better. Even if your abuser does get successful treatment getting back with a woman he abused can make all that go away. As far as getting back with the good...

The only reason I'm suggesting counseling with her is so that we can work through this and possibly remain friends.

Definitely go for. It can turn out bad but it can also turn out great. I told a friend of mine how I felt about her and our friendship kind of petered out after that , but I wasn't happy being around...

The alcohol and the pills were simply to knock me out, haven't touched either since. I'm not the type of person who tries to deaden my pain through artificial means.

She came back at around 7:00...

Unfortunately she lives with me so the no contact rule is out the window. I can't kick her and her kid out on the street. Plus I feel like I need to know what she was thinking. If she really cared...

Well unfortunately she does live here, and she is coming back some time today. I talked to her on the phone and she soundeed miserable and I think she's going to try to repair this. It isn't going to...

I put the program on because I knew she was lying to me, and she was. She had been telling me from day one that this was some guy she had just met and that I was being silly for being jealous. Her...

I actually got the idea of coming here after her telling me about this place when we first had problems. Here is a her post.

https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/showthread.php?t=15938

I basically...

Me and my girlfriend have been together about 4 months. About a month ago I had a strong suspicion she was lying to me about her association with this guy. She uses my laptop all the time to talk...