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You're most welcome bigbird, I'm glad to know that my post was of some help to you and anyone else.



It's perfectly normal. Your mind always digs up the memories of your last relation and it...

No clue where to begin and what to say... been so many months since I have checked this forum and today, while I was searching the net, one of the results had this forum's link and it brought back...

Suelle, the ball is in your playground now... congrats :)

I'm on the 5th day of NC.. no word from her.

It's OK, he'll be calling back tomorrow... once they start the calling they never stop... so just act cool and ignore your phone for a while, cause it will never stop ringing these days! It's obvious...

If you ask me, I'd say keep it cool. To tell him to make choice will certainly show him how desperate you are and that you are ready to have him back. Let him take the lead and do the step.. girl,...

Yeah I totally understand what you mean.. I fear that the same would happen to me. I was thinking "what IF she calls me someday this month? what would I do?".
The good thing is that you're thinking...

ARRGH! More great news from you Suelle... well seems like you started hesitating.. I can't blame you.. so, want him back?

You didn't mention why you dumped her.. if it was for the same reasons that people in here get dunped for (there are no clear reasons), then I'd shoot you if I was in her place.
And if you dumped...

Maybe he's a bit paranoid or suffer from past psychological problems regarding "security". Or maybe he has some "trust" issue. You've been together for 6 months only, which isn't much time to have...

I'm not really sure of this. My ex was 16 when we got together and now she's 22... if she's doing this to "experience" things it would be real stupid.. cause I wonder what is left for her to...

Of course, you're right. Things are still fresh for me and I really can't act as if I don't care or do not count the days. I'm counting now cause I'm having a hard time but that doesn't mean that I...

I'd love to think the same way, but they don't wonder about us, otherwise they wouldn't be away till now. It seems that there feelings can vanish in 24 hours, at least this is what I noticed...

I don't know, they all seem to never care to call or anything.. so I guess they don't even wonder about what we're doing nor even wish to know. And when you think of it, it's real hilarious.. I mean,...

Keep it up! This is great! You crossed a real long way! You're a tough girl, it's his loss without a doubt.

I guess we all didn't see it coming and it's the schock that's making it real hard to...

ConfusedandLost, good for you! Lucky that she calls you, I guess it gives you some boost to your self-esteem?
Does she calls to just say hi, or want to be back?


Suelle, that's great! I envy...

Ok, just to keep things updated with you all...
Well that day (2 days ago) she sent me a message in the afternoon and told me when and where to meet. We met.. I kept the conversation smooth and...

I just had this idea after reading Mik's post.

How about if we use this thread to count the NC days, all of us? Each one would mention how long he/she's been maintaining the NC period and how...

Mik, just do what mckenzie said... almost every single person in here knows what you're going through and it's beyond terrible. But it's time to realise that she wants you no more.
I just had the...

I wish... more and more and more stupidity from my part and more and more bad feelings.

I kept thinking yesterday and analyising things over and over again and I came to a conclusion that maybe...

You're totally right and I became fully convinced regarding this and acted today upon this conviction. So I would really appreciate it if you guys tell me if I handled things well today.

She...

I guess I know what the answer will be honestly. The more I think of it the more I realise that she truly doesn't give a damn. And yes, I'm really at chock how people can say good bye and drop it all...

Thank you so much Serena. Your words triggered something in me. If I take out her attitude and actions in the past month and the half while she was abroad I certainly say she's worth it without any...

Thanks a lot for the advice. I'll do that. So far I'm doing well about the no contact part, but honestly it's driving me nuts to not receive any text or a call from her.
I'm having a hard time...

I just keep hoping that she might call and tell me that she misses me and want us back.
I'm having a hard time accepting what happened and I don't know if I should try to contact her.

Please...

She said that she no longer knows how she feels towards me and that her feelings are cold and that she no longer wants this relation or me and that she;s been hating my guts since 2 months and that...

Hi all.

I've been reading topics on this forum since a month now and I finally decided to post here and seek any kind of help or advice for I have greatly grew fond of it. My "story" might be a...