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Ah so I should had find love 2 years ago?

Oh! Wait! You need to be attractive and outgoing too... damn I missed that part!

*just ranting ignore me*

Lol, I didn't said this!
And technically I'm the one beign messed with in this case?

I didn't mean mature, I have some fairly childish ideas, what I meant is that I just don't fit with the...

Well its not like I'm going to make out with the first girl a see, lol!

Around here it's clear that with -18 you're the one responsible.
But it's well accepted, sometimes too much, I've seen...

I was wondering how do you know the "age limit" to date a person?
I thought this because I'm 20 and it's a little confusing too me.

I greatly apreciatte all your advice, I made my first appointment with a psycologist and it's already having a great outcome, I happy the way I'm taking.

I understand your concerns, but if I...

I agree with all you , but seriously in her case she needs even more help than she thinks.

You seriously think it's all worth? It's worth the time of your life you're expending? If you're 18 with...

How do you manage to find the self control not to eat too much ?

You miss a big point here: nobody is more important than you, nobody owns you. He NEEDs you as much as you NEEDs him, if he don't think so, I'm sorry but I can't see a relationship going right in...

man thank you for asking :) , I don't feel that weird anymore :P

it's something that always feed my fears, what will a girl think of me? I've never had a relationship so how I'm supposed to make...

Omg how could I write that much!

Bottom line I want to get help but I want to be as straight as possible or I'll lose my motivation.

Please don't put up a fight in the treat, let's forget it OK? Please.

I greatly appreciatte all your help :), thanks


I'm from Brazil , so I guess the rules on seeking medical help are very...

Sorry by SAD I mean Social Anxiety Disorder, no seasonal disorder...

For more explanation on AvPD

First thank you :)



That's why I'm wanting to check a doctor, I don't want to make...

Because of a series of factors I think I have SAD (Social Anxiety Disorder,) or AvPD(Avoidant personality disorder), this week I come to the firm resolution that
I need to see a professional about...

So I was at the market and there's that girl I often see there, once I was waiting a friend of mine and I kept looking at her , without even noticing, my friend came and made a joke about it (I'm not...

Most people like talking about a nice past :)

So How/where/when did you meet your first love?

I am not starting a flame about how life is meaningless or that teenager unconformism things... I just want to say out loud how I feel and what's my doubt.

I've posted before that I'm 20 and never...

I'm doing fine thanks for asking =)
since I wrote here and learned about social anxiety, I've been learning much about myself, I still need to change lots of things, but now I notice certain things...

Ubuntu is nice, easy to use and you can make (almost) everything you would do in windows

You can either download, or buy a dvd or request a free CD

If you have programming knowledge, you're good to go, seriously - I think the better advice is just do it. Search around and write your own code. It's not rocket science, obviously you won't get ...

Hi, during the week we'll hardly be online here at te same, time because of the timezone...
It would be easier in the weekends. If you want, I may send my msn address too

First of all , thank you people, you're so kind helping me - I hope this would help people with the same problems.

As ZoeMarie said , I'll put myself out there, I suggest people with the same...

I forgot to say I'm brazilian, so please excuse my many english mistakes.

When I finished high school I was lucky enough to get a scholarship, I've found a 3 years course in Information Tecnology,...

No really, I just graduated in college (long explanation) which sincerally is making my "social phobia" worst , because since then I haven't meet one single new soul.

I feel like this too, I mean, its not just with someone you feel attracted to, but with everyone you don't know enough... and you know you could do it, you just don't do...

when I find something...

Your not small... people is strangely tall!!

Honestly, I won't make a big deal your just 15...
I had a friend with 5ft with your age, now he's about 6ft... its pretty normal.

I think that Big breast fixation really strange...
If you see a girl with 600 ml of silicon in each one would you think it's hot? I bet you're going to laught like hell all day long...

The...

Right I got the intersts part , but what is harder is talking, I mean...

Even when I manage to talk to someone (not just girls), that insecurity feelling comes and I don't know how to keep a...

Well, I'm 20 yo guy and I never had a relationship of any kind with any girl, when I say any kind I mean *ANY*, I don't know how's the feeling of a kiss. I know how weird is to be 20 and never ever...

Exeperience talks for itself!

I don't think your not sympathyc to someone else problems...

But you feel so much empathy, like when you see a person embarrassed in front of an audiency, and you feel embarrassed for him/her......

Are you really sure that you're having panic attacks?
Mood swings are normal... but panic attacks are a real problem, they're more then something you fell, they're a illness and must be trated as...

I think its perfectly normal to like being at home, but I don't think you should just keep away from the friends you really like...

I don't know how's to have "wild times" so I can't say you...

for what is worth:
I would have the same problem if I went to USA or other country where people speaks english , my mother tongue is portuguese.

I've never speaked in english with someone, I've...