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  • Mar 9, 2009, 03:35 PM
    ScottGem
    More Americans losing religion
    Ok, here's a hot topic for people to discuss:

    Scranton, news, obituaries, sports and shopping | thetimes-tribune.com | The Times-Tribune

    I found this an interesting article. Seems to me that Americans are becoming more pragmatic and having less faith in organized religion. I was particularly attracted by this quote:
    "The current survey, being released Monday, found traditional organized religion playing less of a role in many lives."
  • Mar 9, 2009, 04:06 PM
    galveston

    I think the line between saved people and those who are not is becoming increasingly sharp. I expect the trend to continue.

    Christians, in the true sense of being
    Dedicated followers of Jesus Christ have always been a minority. That fact is simply becoming more obvious.
  • Mar 9, 2009, 04:06 PM
    twinkiedooter

    I saw on my local TV news over the weekend that the Catholic Church is closing several churches in the Cleveland area and selling off the church items to other churches. I guess that attendance and the collection plate take isn't enough for them in a town that is dying so they're closing up shop and moving on to greener pastures.
  • Mar 9, 2009, 04:49 PM
    savedsinner7
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by galveston View Post
    I think the line between saved people and those who are not is becoming increasingly sharp. I expect the trend to continue.

    Christians, in the true sense of being
    dedicated followers of Jesus Christ have always been a minority. That fact is simply becoming more obvious.

    Jesus is definitely making clear who is His and who is not.
  • Mar 9, 2009, 06:00 PM
    450donn

    About time organized religion dies. That will make room for true Christians to really come out of the background and show the true meaning of being a Christian.
  • Mar 9, 2009, 07:42 PM
    vwdieseljunkie
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by ScottGem View Post
    Seems to me that Americans are becoming more pragmatic and having less faith in organized religion. I was particularly attracted by this quote:
    "The current survey, being released Monday, found traditional organized religion playing less of a role in many lives."

    I'm just struck by the fact that while the economy is going down the tubes, and tax payers are losing their jobs, there are still multi-million dollar churches being built everywhere you look.

    Folks around here are beginning to ask where the church gets it's money from to build such a structure, on prime realty, with prime frontage. We have had two churches built in the last three years that are big enough to sponsor professional sporting events in and take up more than six acres each. When churches start looking more like big business, and less like spiritual congregation... I can see why "organized religion plays less of a role".
  • Mar 9, 2009, 07:55 PM
    twinkiedooter

    DieselJunkie - Yes I quite agree with you there about churches building bigger buildings. I have one such "church" that is a Baptist church and private school. Each time I drive past their facility they are adding more and more buildings and more parking spaces. I guess some religions don't believe in small churches and the bigger the better fits them just fine. The yearly tuition to this megachurch school for one kid is between $5-8,000 per year that the parents have to come up with.
  • Mar 9, 2009, 08:11 PM
    vwdieseljunkie
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by twinkiedooter View Post
    DieselJunkie - Yes I quite agree with you there about churches building bigger buildings.

    I have also noticed that the preachers no longer live in a humble parsonage. They are kicking back in 5000 square foot dream homes and driving escalades and lexus. We have a pentecostal 'preacher' here local that mysteriously got a brand new $500k home at the same time the church got it's insurance money after the hurricane. Funny, that many of his congregation still has the blue fema tarps on their roofs, or are still living in fema cottages. We even have a "biker church", and many nonsensical 'churches' that have popped up in everything from mobile homes, portables, and old rezoned homes.

    The word is out, organized religion is where the money's at, and it's tax free! Which brings me back to where does the money come from?
  • Mar 9, 2009, 10:04 PM
    twinkiedooter

    Oh the government has some sort of handout to the churches so they'll "push" the agenda that the government wants such as "obey the government" type baloney. A lot of sheeple think that because my pastor told us, then it must be true. I forget offhand which denominations are the proud recipients of all this cash hand outs from the govt. But I'm pretty sure that the bunch down the road from me sure have their hands out big time.

    I used to go to church but ever since they were pushing the Rick Warren book at Sunday school after reading it I completely stopped going. Also, there were 3 services on Sunday. One was traditional (which I went to) and the other two were basically "trash" consisting of a band (yes, a band) and I don't remember the other service "theme" but that was the final straw with the Rick Warren book for me. Haven't looked back since. I actually feel a bit better spiritually as well now being able to think for myself so to speak.

    What really scares me is the Muslim stuff is getting more "play" in the media than Christianity now. I hope we are not going to be under Sharia law with the honor killings. That is horrid to think that a wife or daughter can be beheaded for stupid reasons by the husband or father. I shudder to think of this coming to America and being allowed.
  • Mar 9, 2009, 10:08 PM
    twinkiedooter
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by savedsinner7 View Post
    Jesus is definitely making clear who is His and who is not.

    Amen to that. The goats will be herded out of the flock and only the faithful will remain.
  • Mar 10, 2009, 08:26 AM
    classyT
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by galveston View Post
    I think the line between saved people and those who are not is becoming increasingly sharp. I expect the trend to continue.

    Christians, in the true sense of being
    dedicated followers of Jesus Christ have always been a minority. That fact is simply becoming more obvious.

    Amen to that! The bible is clear that in the last days there will be a "falling away" before the tribulation period. I personally know people who called themselves " saved" who have walked away from truth for a more liberal, tolerant way to believe. It sounds good doesn't it? The problem is it is false... the road is very wide and we see it more and more.
  • Mar 10, 2009, 08:34 AM
    NeedKarma
    I read another survey that said the same thing Scott. I'm pleased with this, less divisiveness on the horizon.
  • Mar 10, 2009, 09:08 AM
    galveston

    We should keep something in mind about money the church gets. I comes from voluntary contributions. When the congregation ceases to trust the leadership, the money will stop.

    Churches do not get money from the government. Certain faith based programs may, but those are things that benefit the community, not the church. Churches are tax exempt, but ministers are not.

    What defines "organized" religion? As I understand it, the survey made no distinction between basic differences in organizations, whether Catholic, Protestant, Evangelical, or Pentecostal, etc. A clearer picture could be seen if the survey had been broken down into the various groups. I think it can be shown that some groups are actually growing.
  • Mar 10, 2009, 11:04 AM
    N0help4u

    I believe that people are starting to realize that there is a difference between religion and spirituality,
    While traditional churches are losing members by the hundreds the mega churches like Joel Osteen and local churches like them are packed as well as the New Age spiritual movement.
  • Mar 10, 2009, 11:10 AM
    templelane
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by ScottGem View Post
    "The current survey, being released Monday, found traditional organized religion playing less of a role in many lives."

    Good, there is hope for humanity yet.
  • Mar 10, 2009, 11:11 AM
    excon

    Hello Scott:

    Given my belief that religion was a great idea whose time has passed, the results don't surprise me at all.

    excon
  • Mar 10, 2009, 06:23 PM
    inthebox

    Quote:

    Respondents who called themselves "non-denominational Christian" grew from 0.1 percent in 1990 to 3.5 percent last year.

    Perhaps this is a message to the traditional denominations.

    I've found that many churches don't really display love. Either amongst the congregation or to those that are lost.

    Due to recent moves in the past several years, I've found that those churches that do preach about sin and judgment, but also emphasize forgiveness, mercy, love, and deeds as a result of faith, are growing by leaps and bounds.







    G&P
  • Mar 11, 2009, 06:35 AM
    vwdieseljunkie
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by N0help4u View Post
    I believe that people are starting to realize that there is a difference between religion and spirituality,

    I sure hope so. There's more than enough religion to go around. It's the spirituality that is lacking. I'll take spirituality over religion, anyday.
  • Mar 11, 2009, 08:46 AM
    galveston
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by vwdieseljunkie View Post
    I sure hope so. There's more than enough religion to go around. It's the spirituality that is lacking. I'll take spirituality over religion, anyday.

    Spirituality can be either good or bad.

    Having the presence and move of the Holy Spirit in your church or life is good spirituality.

    Having some occult demonstration, as in communication with the dead or spirit guides, is an evil thing.

    Either can be called spiritual.
  • Mar 13, 2009, 03:55 PM
    savedsinner7
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by vwdieseljunkie View Post
    I have also noticed that the preachers no longer live in a humble parsonage. They are kicking back in 5000 square foot dream homes and driving escalades and lexus. We have a pentecostal 'preacher' here local that mysteriously got a brand new $500k home at the same time the church got it's insurance money after the hurricane. Funny, that many of his congregation still has the blue fema tarps on their roofs, or are still living in fema cottages. We even have a "biker church", and many nonsensical 'churches' that have popped up in everything from mobile homes, portables, and old rezoned homes.

    The word is out, organized religion is where the money's at, and it's tax free! Which brings me back to where does the money come from?

    Not all people in the churches, including the pastors, may be really obedient to the Bible. Unfortunately, their hypocrisy is what everyone sees.
  • Mar 20, 2009, 07:46 PM
    cozyk
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by galveston View Post
    We should keep something in mind about money the church gets. I comes from voluntary contributions. When the congregation ceases to trust the leadership, the money will stop.

    Churches do not get money from the government. Certain faith based programs may, but those are things that benefit the community, not the church. Churches are tax exempt, but ministers are not.

    What defines "organized" religion? As I understand it, the survey made no distinction between basic differences in organizations, whether Catholic, Protestant, Evangelical, or Pentecostal, etc. A clearer picture could be seen if the survey had been broken down into the various groups. I think it can be shown that some groups are actually growing.

    Churches may not be getting money from the gov. but they don't pay taxes either. Isn't that basically taking money, just through the back door?
  • Mar 21, 2009, 08:54 AM
    galveston
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by cozyk View Post
    Churches may not be getting money from the gov. but they don't pay taxes either. Isn't that basically taking money, just through the back door?

    Unlike some today, the founders of this country understood the value of the Church to society. They recognized the only "hands off" way to create a favorable climate in which the Church could prosper was to make it tax exempt. Now that only applies to those properties that are actually used for ministerial purposes

    Some groups are pushing the envelope with church related businesses, and that is a legitimate concern, but it is not exactly accurate to say that being tax exempt is the same thing as receiving money from the government.

    Carried to the logical conclusion then would be to say since the Church is tax exempt and therefore receiving government money, then government could dictate church policy, thus creating a State church. That of course, is anathama to the Constitution.

    Do you want the government telling the Church how it should operate or what it should teach?
  • Mar 21, 2009, 02:19 PM
    cozyk
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    Quote:

    QUOTE=galveston;1617849]Unlike some today, the founders of this country understood the value of the Church to society.
    There is value when it operates properly in it's community.

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    They recognized the only "hands off" way to create a favorable climate in which the Church could prosper was to make it tax exempt.
    Define "prosper".


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    Some groups are pushing the envelope with church related businesses, and that is a legitimate concern,
    I agree


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    but it is not exactly accurate to say that being tax exempt is the same thing as receiving money from the government.
    I agree it is not "exactly" accurate but it just about amounts to the same thing.

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    Do you want the government telling the Church how it should operate or what it should teach?
    [/QUOTE]

    Absolutely not. And I don't want my gov issuing special perks to the church either, like making it tax exempt. It has a capacity to generate a lot of money, tax free. Any other group, person, or even gift recipient has to pay taxes on their earnings. Why not the church? When they make charitable donations or support missions , then they take the tax deduction. Just like everybody else. What about that does not make total sense?

    Also, by taking advantage of the perk given by the gov, (tax exemption) seems like that would make them even MORE beholding to the gov telling them how to operate.
  • Mar 21, 2009, 05:38 PM
    mugger

    I think people should just be free to believe whatever they want and feel to be true for them. Organized religion pretty much tells you what things you have to believe. Sounds political to me.
  • Mar 21, 2009, 05:47 PM
    cozyk
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by mugger View Post
    i think people should just be free to believe whatever they want and feel to be true for them. organized religion pretty much tells you what things you have to believe. sounds political to me.

    I totally agree with you. Why do we not have the option to do a greenie?
  • Mar 21, 2009, 05:56 PM
    artlady

    In my hometown 4 Catholic churches have been forced to close due to a struggling economy and the fact that there are no priests.
    Heaven forbid they should allow a woman to preach and save their church.
  • Mar 21, 2009, 05:57 PM
    artlady

    Quote:

    I totally agree with you. Why do we not have the option to do a greenie?
    Because this is the discussion board.
  • Mar 21, 2009, 06:05 PM
    cozyk
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by artlady View Post
    Because this is the discussion board.

    Oooohhhhh. That makes sense I guess.
  • Mar 21, 2009, 06:13 PM
    XOXOlove
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by mugger View Post
    i think people should just be free to believe whatever they want and feel to be true for them. organized religion pretty much tells you what things you have to believe. sounds political to me.

    I agree. People should believe what they want to. I think that people should choose the religion that they feel is right for them instead of being forced to practice the religion they were born into. I have many mixed beliefs so I don't really practice religion. I think it's just sometimes a matter of being young and living in a diverse country. Everything gets jumbled for kids who don't have parents that are religious or kids who have friends that are of other religions.
  • Mar 21, 2009, 06:22 PM
    cozyk
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by artlady View Post
    In my hometown 4 Catholic churches have been forced to close due to a struggling economy and the fact that there are no priests.
    Heaven forbid they should allow a woman to preach and save their church.

    Mark my words. They will reconsider, and have a change of policy when they don't have enough males to fill the posts. That is what happened to my protestant churches I used to attend. Once upon a time you could not be a woman and hold a leadership position of any kind. When positions became difficult to fill, they changed their belief.
  • Mar 21, 2009, 06:39 PM
    artlady
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by cozyk View Post
    Mark my words. They will reconsider, and have a change of policy when they don't have enough males to fill the posts. That is what happened to my protestant churches I used to attend. Once upon a time you could not be a woman and hold a leadership position of any kind. When positions became difficult to fill, they changed their belief.

    In a perfect world you would think so but this is The Catholic Church and getting them to change policy is like pulling teeth.They still don't believe in birth control :confused:
  • Mar 22, 2009, 02:03 PM
    galveston

    Over and over, I see people complaining about forced religion (down our throats, etc,) ad nauseum.

    No one here is forced to attend ANY church or believe ANYTHING.

    Now if you live in an Islamic state, that is NOT true!

    "You shall know the truth, and the truth will set you free". Jesus Christ.

    The Christian faith has produced more real freedom in this world than any other influence.

    Note that I did not say "church membership".
  • Mar 22, 2009, 09:24 PM
    XOXOlove

    I agree about people not being forced into believing in a religion. It's just that a lot of people become so influenced by their religion at a young age that they think that their religion is the one that is correct just because they were born into it. Sometimes they're so absorbed that it makes them so closeminded to others beliefs that they hate people that are not of their own religion or sect. that's why I don't practice any religion. There are just so many and everyone thinks their beliefs are correct. I just want to mix together beliefs and incorporate them into my own.
  • Mar 22, 2009, 09:27 PM
    Sunflowers

    Personally, I don't want to introduce my child to any religion.
  • Mar 22, 2009, 10:14 PM
    Nestorian

    Religion - a set of beliefs concerning the cause, nature, and purpose of the universe, esp. when considered as the creation of a superhuman agency or agencies, usually involving devotional and ritual observances, and often containing a moral code governing the conduct of human affairs.

    Now, upon reading a definition from the online dictionary, who here would tell me that LAW, or any belief/ moral is not a religion? Any thing that you believe is a religion. People are not losing reliegion, they are changing it, and others are living by the codes and values of people who didn't understand how the world works, especially today.

    If you think that you are not religious then prove to me that you do not in fact care either way about any thing at all. Life, death, babies, children, people, loved ones, cars, money, power, freedom, and so on. Every one has a religion, they just don't have a name for it, though I suppose Athism would probably be accurate?

    XOXOlove, you are doing the same thing, thinking religion is what ever you think it is because you were raised in such a way, not necessarrily encouraged, but reasoned that religion is one thing or another.
    In actuality, religion is apart of us all, unless you have not the capacity to think of your own acord.

    Something I've realised about life it's self is that, life is not definable, it's Pliable. For example; "You shall know the truth, and the truth will set you free". Jesus Christ. I'm sure most people agree that this means that if you embrace the truth, you will be set free. Well for me, it means realising that you are not ever free until you realise that you must accept the chains of responsibility before you can be free. I have put a few Phrases together to show My understanding of this concept.
    "Knowledge is power, with great power comes great responsibility, through responsibility comes freedom."- Various sources.
    So it's a Paradox, It says that knowledge is power,and power means responsibility, and that will bring freedom; However, "freedom - the power to determine action without restraint." is rather contradictory to the idea of "Responsibility - Something for which one is responsible; a duty, obligation, or burden." No? But the statement remains valid. Interesting if you ask me, because it's subject to interpretation. There can be any number of possible ideas from "Knowledge is power..."

    That is the same for any religion, or belief, or idea. Pliable is the best word I've so far found for this idea/ concept what ever. I realise that ties very loosely into the converstation but, it also opens the doors to some more complex issues...
  • Mar 22, 2009, 10:20 PM
    Nestorian
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Sunflowers View Post
    Personally, I don't want to introduce my child to any religion.

    The fact that you just said that, is a show of religious motivation, due to that you believe that religion is some how "bad" or "wrong". You may want to make it more specific, like you don't want to introduce them to CHristianity, or JW, or Hinduism, Buddhism, Taoism, Confusionism, etc...

    Eh?
  • Mar 22, 2009, 11:07 PM
    Sunflowers

    Religion belongs on the same shelf as Hansel and Gretel, The Wisard of Oz and other fairy tales and make believe things such as the boggy man, easter bunny, tooth fairy, santa claus, you know childhood fantasy land. Though the bible stories are a little violent for the little ones, I think those can be left out or left for later in life.
  • Mar 22, 2009, 11:10 PM
    Sunflowers
    For me life is, death happens, enjoy the ride, end of story
  • Mar 23, 2009, 07:02 AM
    classyT

    For ALL of us death happens! All of us should enjoy the ride but what a horrible waste if this is all there is!
  • Mar 23, 2009, 07:09 AM
    albear

    A horrible waste of what?

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