Originally Posted by margog85
Well, Tsila, I did read your answers. You seem somewhat aggravated with me for not 'getting it', which I don't really understand. Maybe all of this is clear as day to you, but it's not to me.
I understand that YOU have faith, and that OTHERS have faith, and I know what faith IS, but I still can't grasp it myself and really get a good grip on HOW that kind of faith is possible.
If I didn't really want an answer, I wouldn't have asked the question, read the responses, and responded to them. So don't ask silly questions like that, obviously I'm trying to figure it out. When you ask a question like that, it comes off as condescending. Not trying to argue, just pointing it out in case you didn't realize or intend it to sound that way.
And I'm not asking for 'proof' of faith, whatever that means- What I'm interested in the thought process behind coming to faith in something- how to narrow it all down from the vague idea that there's something out there beyond yourself to the specific religious 'truths' that people have. And just saying that 'reading the bible' or 'just trusting' doesn't cut it for me. If that's how it worked for you or for others, that's fine and great for you- but I'm looking for a different kind of answer- something a little more specific.
If you can say that that's a simple process, something that I should have come to a full understanding of within the past week or two since I posted this question, then I have to disagree. People spend their entire lives searching and trying to figure this out- so please don't be hard on me because it's taking me a while to understand.
I'm not asking what faith IS- I know that it's belief in something you can't see but still believe to be true and real- but I don't understand what's behind that faith, how to get to a place where you really can understand what you have faith in, out of all the different options out there, and be confident in it as being 'right'.
If you re-read my question, or maybe read it fully, not just the title, maybe you'd understand better exactly what I'm looking for. I know it's long- but maybe it'd clarify a bit what I was asking for here.
I really don't want to argue, but you're coming off sort of confrontational- and this is not what I was looking for. It wasn't meant to be a cut and dry question, I wasn't just looking for a definition of faith or of what other people believe- I wanted a discussion of how people came to believe what they do... why they do... how they sorted out all the confusion in their heads and came to some sort of peace with whatever beliefs they finally decided were 'right' or 'right' for them...
So forgive me if I'm still discussing it and asking more questions that come to mind- but there's no need to get frustrated with me, though. I'm trying to understand something that is (possibly) much bigger than myself. I think it's normal that it takes some time.
=)