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  • Feb 15, 2009, 06:43 PM
    classyT
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Wondergirl View Post
    This is a discussion board without ratings. You have no business coming on here (as a moderator!!!) and giving approval ("great job") to one of the parties.

    Ouch! Wondergirl, I think I'm officially scared. Hee hee. ;) Be gentle with me.. I cry easy.
  • Feb 15, 2009, 06:43 PM
    Wondergirl
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by classyT View Post
    Yes he did...and then sin entered in...

    And when sin entered in, everything went topsy turvy. Weeds spouted, animals killed and ate each other, man had to work for a living, women had pain in childbirth, and not only were men attracted to women, they were also attracted to other men.
  • Feb 15, 2009, 06:44 PM
    Wondergirl
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by classyT View Post
    ouch! wondergirl, i think i'm officially scared. hee hee. ;) Be gentle with me..i cry easy.

    I didn't realize you are a moderator.
  • Feb 15, 2009, 06:45 PM
    Akoue
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Tj3 View Post
    I thought that we were discussing homosexuality, not the propagation.

    Me too. That's why I thought it odd when you brought it up:

    Quote:

    Really? How would you expects homosexuals to multiply?
    As for orientation, Wondergirl's definition of *sexual* orientation looks good to me. Can't see how nautical or other uses of the term are on point. Why not stick with the *relevant* sense of "orientation".
  • Feb 15, 2009, 06:47 PM
    Tj3
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Wondergirl View Post
    And when sin entered in, everything went topsy turvy. Weeds spouted, animals killed and ate each other, man had to work for a living, women had pain in childbirth, and not only were men attracted to women, they were also attracted to other men.

    Now you are starting to understand. As men entered into sin, they chose sinful orientations.
  • Feb 15, 2009, 06:49 PM
    Tj3
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Akoue View Post
    Me too. That's why I thought it odd when you brought it up:

    I didn't - read carefully.

    Quote:

    As for orientation, Wondergirl's definition of *sexual* orientation looks good to me. Can't see how nautical or other uses of the term are on point.
    Well, if we cannot come to terms on what an "orientation" actually is, then to discuss what a specific type of orientation is will be no less clear to you.

    So, humour me, what do you believe an orientation is?
  • Feb 15, 2009, 06:50 PM
    classyT
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Wondergirl View Post
    I didn't realize you are a moderator.

    hey, I'm teasin you. I agree with you as far as the state of the world after sin entered in.
  • Feb 15, 2009, 06:51 PM
    classyT
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Tj3 View Post
    Now you are starting to understand. As men entered into sin, they chose sinful orientations.

    Tee hee... I don't think she is starting to understand...
  • Feb 15, 2009, 06:53 PM
    Wondergirl
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Tj3 View Post
    Now you are starting to understand. As men entered into sin, they chose sinful orientations.

    No, not a choice, but from birth -- just as many are born heterosexuals (and don't choose it), others are born homosexuals (and don't choose it).
  • Feb 15, 2009, 06:54 PM
    Wondergirl
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Tj3 View Post
    I understood him to be coming on here as a participant giving his opinion, just as you have been doing.

    His "opinion" was only approval of you. He did not add to the discussion in any way.
  • Feb 15, 2009, 06:55 PM
    Wondergirl
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Tj3 View Post
    It is interesting how you refuse to answer my question each time that I ask it.

    You asked for my definition of orientation. I told you I will go with Wikipedia's. What more do you want?
  • Feb 15, 2009, 06:57 PM
    Tj3
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Wondergirl View Post
    No, not a choice, but from birth -- just as many are born heterosexuals (and don't choose it), others are born homosexuals (and don't choose it).

    Really? And where do you find that in scripture, and why then are men able to choose?

    Rom 1:18-32

    18 For the wrath of God is revealed from heaven against all ungodliness and unrighteousness of men, who suppress the truth in unrighteousness, 19 because what may be known of God is manifest in them, for God has shown it to them. 20 For since the creation of the world His invisible attributes are clearly seen, being understood by the things that are made, even His eternal power and Godhead, so that they are without excuse, 21 because, although they knew God, they did not glorify Him as God, nor were thankful, but became futile in their thoughts, and their foolish hearts were darkened. 22 Professing to be wise, they became fools, 23 and changed the glory of the incorruptible God into an image made like corruptible man--and birds and four-footed animals and creeping things. 24 Therefore God also gave them up to uncleanness, in the lusts of their hearts, to dishonor their bodies among themselves, 25 who exchanged the truth of God for the lie, and worshiped and served the creature rather than the Creator, who is blessed forever. Amen. 26 For this reason God gave them up to vile passions. For even their women exchanged the natural use for what is against nature. 27 Likewise also the men, leaving the natural use of the woman, burned in their lust for one another, men with men committing what is shameful, and receiving in themselves the penalty of their error which was due. 28 And even as they did not like to retain God in their knowledge, God gave them over to a debased mind, to do those things which are not fitting; 29 being filled with all unrighteousness, sexual immorality, wickedness, covetousness, maliciousness; full of envy, murder, strife, deceit, evil-mindedness; they are whisperers, 30 backbiters, haters of God, violent, proud, boasters, inventors of evil things, disobedient to parents, 31 undiscerning, untrustworthy, unloving, unforgiving, unmerciful; 32 who, knowing the righteous judgment of God, that those who practice such things are worthy of death, not only do the same but also approve of those who practice them.
    NKJV
  • Feb 15, 2009, 06:58 PM
    Tj3
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Wondergirl View Post
    You asked for my definition of orientation. I told you I will go with Wikipedia's. What more do you want?

    I keep asking you for a generic definition of what you believe an orientation is.

    Why do you refuse?
  • Feb 15, 2009, 06:59 PM
    Akoue
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Tj3 View Post
    So, humour me, what do you believe an orientation is?

    I might be more inclined to humor you if it didn't seem so much like a pointless diversion. We're talking about sexual orientation. A definition of "sexual orientation" has been proffered. I can see no reason not to stay on subject. If the nautical meaning of "orientation" is relevant in any way, I confess I must be stupid, because I just don't see how.
  • Feb 15, 2009, 06:59 PM
    Wondergirl
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Tj3 View Post
    Really? And where do you find that in scripture, and why then are men able to choose?

    How old were you when you chose heterosexuality?
  • Feb 15, 2009, 07:01 PM
    classyT
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Tj3 View Post
    Really? And where do you find that in scripture, and why then are men able to choose?

    Rom 1:18-32

    18 For the wrath of God is revealed from heaven against all ungodliness and unrighteousness of men, who suppress the truth in unrighteousness, 19 because what may be known of God is manifest in them, for God has shown it to them. 20 For since the creation of the world His invisible attributes are clearly seen, being understood by the things that are made, even His eternal power and Godhead, so that they are without excuse, 21 because, although they knew God, they did not glorify Him as God, nor were thankful, but became futile in their thoughts, and their foolish hearts were darkened. 22 Professing to be wise, they became fools, 23 and changed the glory of the incorruptible God into an image made like corruptible man--and birds and four-footed animals and creeping things. 24 Therefore God also gave them up to uncleanness, in the lusts of their hearts, to dishonor their bodies among themselves, 25 who exchanged the truth of God for the lie, and worshiped and served the creature rather than the Creator, who is blessed forever. Amen. 26 For this reason God gave them up to vile passions. For even their women exchanged the natural use for what is against nature. 27 Likewise also the men, leaving the natural use of the woman, burned in their lust for one another, men with men committing what is shameful, and receiving in themselves the penalty of their error which was due. 28 And even as they did not like to retain God in their knowledge, God gave them over to a debased mind, to do those things which are not fitting; 29 being filled with all unrighteousness, sexual immorality, wickedness, covetousness, maliciousness; full of envy, murder, strife, deceit, evil-mindedness; they are whisperers, 30 backbiters, haters of God, violent, proud, boasters, inventors of evil things, disobedient to parents, 31 undiscerning, untrustworthy, unloving, unforgiving, unmerciful; 32 who, knowing the righteous judgment of God, that those who practice such things are worthy of death, not only do the same but also approve of those who practice them.
    NKJV

    AMEN! How do you get around these verses? I don't get it. He says it is not natural.. to me that means they are NOT BORN THIS WAY!
  • Feb 15, 2009, 07:03 PM
    Wondergirl
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by classyT View Post
    AMEN! how do you get around these verses? I don't get it. he says it is not natural..to me that means they are NOT BORN THIS WAY!

    Same question to you. When did you choose to be heterosexual instead of homosexual?
  • Feb 15, 2009, 07:11 PM
    classyT

    Wondergirl,

    I was BORN that way. Want to know how I wasn't born... a drug addict. I chose that lifesyle when I got addicted to prescription drugs. Course the world tells me I was born that way but I know better. You take enough of those suckers and you are going to get addicted. It was MY choice to take the pills.
    I don't pretend to understand homosexual tendencies but I do believe God's word and I'm not going to rationalize what he has said. It is wrong and I can't twist it to make it right.
  • Feb 15, 2009, 07:12 PM
    Akoue
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by classyT View Post
    he says it is not natural..to me that means they are NOT BORN THIS WAY!

    What you think the word "natural" means? I ask because it's not obvious to me why not natural entails that they are not born this way. Do you regard birth defects as unnatural? People are born with those every day.
  • Feb 15, 2009, 07:14 PM
    classyT

    LOL... birth defects aren't sin. Sin is a choice.
  • Feb 15, 2009, 07:14 PM
    Tj3
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Wondergirl View Post
    Same question to you. When did you choose to be heterosexual instead of homosexual?

    Scripture says that we are created man and woman, not created homosexual. As the quote that I gave from Romans says is that God has condemned homosexuals. Does God create people as homosexuals and then condemn them for being what He created them? Is that your view of God?
  • Feb 15, 2009, 07:18 PM
    classyT
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Tj3 View Post
    Scripture says that we are created man and woman, not created homosexual. As the quote that I gave from Romans says is that God has condemned homosexuals. Does God create people as homosexuals and then condemn them for being what He created them? Is that your view of God?

    Tj3,

    Couldn't have said it better myself.
  • Feb 15, 2009, 07:20 PM
    Tj3
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Akoue View Post
    I might be more inclined to humor you if it didn't seem so much like a pointless diversion. We're talking about sexual orientation. A definition of "sexual orientation" has been proffered. I can see no reason not to stay on subject. If the nautical meaning of "orientation" is relevant in any way, I confess I must be stupid, because I just don't see how.

    Do you understand the word "generic"? You may wish to look it up in the dictionary. It does not mean "nautical". Your mis-understanding of what the word orientation means may explain some of the difficultly we are having in discussing this topic.
  • Feb 15, 2009, 07:20 PM
    Akoue
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by classyT View Post
    LOL...birth defects aren't sin. sin is a choice.

    Right. So if someone is born homosexual, then they are not in sin just for being homosexual. If they act on that, though, that's another story. Right?
  • Feb 15, 2009, 07:21 PM
    Wondergirl
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by classyT View Post
    wondergirl,

    I was BORN that way.

    As were 98% of the homosexuals in the world.

    Your drug problem was choice, as is cigarette smoking, overeating, drug use, driving without a license, and drinking to excess. You may have been born with a tendency/weakness for drug use, if one or both of your parents had their brain chemistry screwed up by drugs and thus your brain chemistry got screwed up too (synapses don't fire correctly, neurotransmitters go to the wrong receptors, etc.) -- you inherited those weaknesses. You could have said no, but it was easier to give in and it make your body happier when you gave in.
  • Feb 15, 2009, 07:22 PM
    Tj3
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Akoue View Post
    Right. So if someone is born homosexual, then they are not in sin just for being homosexual. If they act on that, though, that's another story. Right?

    But saying that they are born that way contradicts scripture as I just showed.
  • Feb 15, 2009, 07:23 PM
    Akoue
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Tj3 View Post
    Do you understand the word "generic"? You may wish to look it up in the dictionary. It does not mean "nautical". Your mis-understanding of what the word orientation means may explain some of the difficultly we are having in discussing this topic.

    If you say so. I've already endorsed the definition Wondergirl provided, and nowhere in the definiens is the word "orientation" included, so I'm pretty sure I understand the definition. And I'm reasonably confidant that I understand the meaning of "attraction" as it occurs there. Do you?
  • Feb 15, 2009, 07:23 PM
    Tj3
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Wondergirl View Post
    As were 98% of the homosexuals in the world.

    Really? That is contrary to both scripture and secular findings.
  • Feb 15, 2009, 07:26 PM
    Akoue
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Tj3 View Post
    But saying that they are born that way contradicts scripture as I just showed.

    See my reply to ClassyT: Depends how you understand "natural". If "unnatural" means something like "violates the law of God", then the Scripture you cited is perfectly compatible with one's being born homosexual. The word "natural" gets used in lots of different ways. One has to be careful how one uses it, and how one reads it.
  • Feb 15, 2009, 07:26 PM
    Wondergirl
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Tj3 View Post
    Really? That is contrary to both scripture and secular findings.

    And those are?
  • Feb 15, 2009, 07:27 PM
    classyT

    Wondergirl and Akoue,

    I'm not the one who said it was unnatural... God did. I didn't define what sin was... God did. I didn't set the standard God did. I mean I am only getting my info from the word of God. I'm not hating on homosexuals, I'm not belittling anyone. I'm Not setting the standard of right and wrong. I'm getting this from the word.He said it is wrong and I agree with Tj3. Why would the Lord make someone homosexual and then condemn them for it??
  • Feb 15, 2009, 07:28 PM
    Tj3
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Akoue View Post
    If you say so. I've already endorsed the definition Wondergirl provided, and nowhere in the definiens is the word "orientation" included, so I'm pretty sure I understand the definition. And I'm reasonably confidant that I understand the meaning of "attraction" as it occurs there. Do you?

    Again, "generic" does not mean sexual. If you think it does, you might have a rather embarrassing mis-understanding if you find out that your drug plan at work only pays for "generic" drugs.
  • Feb 15, 2009, 07:32 PM
    Tj3
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Wondergirl View Post
    And those are?

    Wow - over 250 messages discussing scripture and you missed the entire discussion?

    And from the secular world, not a single credible study has yet concluded that sexual orientation was something that people are born with.
  • Feb 15, 2009, 07:37 PM
    Wondergirl
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by classyT View Post
    Wondergirl and Akoue,

    I'm not the one who said it was unnatural...God did. I didn't define what sin was...God did. I didn't set the standard God did. I mean I am only getting my info from the word of God. I'm not hatin on homosexuals, I'm not belittling anyone. I'm Not setting the standard of right and wrong. I'm getting this from the word.He said it is wrong and I agree with Tj3. Why would the Lord make someone homosexual and then condemn them for it???

    Of course homosexuality was not part of God's plan when He created a perfect world. And yes, homosexuality wasn't part of the picture -- He created men and women to be fruitful and multiply. But then something happened to upset God's plan, didn't it. Adam and Eve ate from the forbidden tree. God's perfect plan was no more. The world became imperfect, and death happened. As people were born into the world, they were born imperfect -- with physical and mental defects and illnesses. They died before or at birth. They also were born not only as heterosexuals, but also as homosexuals.
  • Feb 15, 2009, 07:41 PM
    Wondergirl
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Tj3 View Post
    Again, "generic" does not mean sexual. If you think it does, you might have a rather embarassing mis-understanding if you find out that your drug plan at work only pays for "generic" drugs.

    Our discussion is about sexuality and sexual orientation. Why do you want to go orienteering?
  • Feb 15, 2009, 07:43 PM
    Tj3
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Wondergirl View Post
    Of course homosexuality was not part of God's plan when He created a perfect world. And yes, it's not natural in that He created men and women to be fruitful and multiply. But then something happened to upset God's plan, didn't it. Adam and Eve ate from the forbidden tree. God's perfect plan was no more. The world became imperfect, and death happened. As people were born into the world, they were born imperfect -- with physical and mental defects and illnesses. They died before or at birth. They also were born not only as heterosexuals, but also as homosexuals.

    So you are saying homosexuality is a mental defect or metal illness?

    Then why would God condemn those who are homosexuals?

    BTW, in my opinion, I would think homosexuals would be more insulted by someone saying that they had a mental illness or defect at birth rather than that homosecxuality is what scripture says, a sin.

    Jesus came and died on the cross that we have an answer for sin, and homosexuals have been changed by the blood shed on the cross according to scripture.
  • Feb 15, 2009, 07:46 PM
    Tj3
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Wondergirl View Post
    Our discussion is about sexuality and sexual orientation. Why do you want to go orienteering?

    You and Akoue seem to have some difficulties with the English language, specigfically the words "generic" and "orientation". I never saw anyone with that specific problem before, let alone two. Perhaps there is something that scares the both of you about acknowledging what the word orientation means.
  • Feb 15, 2009, 07:46 PM
    Wondergirl
    Quote:

    So you are saying homosexuality is a mental defect or metal illness?
    No, if you read carefully, you will see that I said homosexuality came about because of the Fall -- like army ants and black widow spiders and weeds. None of those were part of a perfect Creation.
  • Feb 15, 2009, 07:48 PM
    Tj3
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Wondergirl View Post
    So you are saying homosexuality is a mental defect or metal illness?[quopte]
    No, if you read carefully, you will see that I said homosexuality came about because of the Fall.

    Then please be clear - are you saying that it is a mental defect or sin? You were the one who brought up the terms mental defect and mental illness.
  • Feb 15, 2009, 07:50 PM
    Akoue
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Tj3 View Post
    You and Akoue seem to have some difficulties with the English language, specigfically the words "generic" and "orientation". I never saw anyone with that specific problem before, let alone two. Perhaps there is something that scares the both of you about acknowledging what the word orientation means.

    Interesting that you would rush to that particular conclusion. Typically, when one or more person fails to understand what one has said, the first thing to pop into mind would be, "Gee, maybe it's my fault". Nope. Not you.

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