Ask Me Help Desk - Is Homosexuality Wrong?

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Originally Posted by wolf200050

yes...homosexuality is wrong. Parts entering "exit only" parts, damaging vital organs. It is just not the way we were intended to be. You know it is funny when I hear that homosexuals were born that way, because if that was the case than why have I met so many people that use to be gay or lesbian, but now they aren't?hhhhhhhhhhmmmmmmmmmm, interesting.

Umm. . I'm hetero and love anal sex. Been getting it from my monogamous relationships for quite some time now and have never had any damaged vital organs (you think you're that big, huh?). It has never turned me into a lesbian and even if I wanted to experiment with another woman that doesn't make me a lesbian either. All right, Wolf, how many people EXACTLY have you met personally that were homosexual for more than ten minutes that decided they were sinners and switched that magical light switch that made them "normal"??

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Originally Posted by Morteza

Hey Listen! Because we are HUMAN! we have the ability to think, decide,... . this is the only thing which makes us different with the other creatures! ability of thinking, ability of deciding!
another reason is that, we are not here in this damn world, to enjoy our BODY! we have spend our time on another things such as enjoying nature, learning, understanding, thinking!
and I appreciate you because you have thought on this matter, this pcychologically means that you still are ration and yourself know that this is not true! I dont have enough time on answering you about another side of this question which is its impact on social issues! if you liked my answer, I'll tell you more here: [email protected]

Be Happy,(not in a stupid way)

;-)

Who are you talking to and what are you talking about?

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SassT If we are going to give marriage right to everyone who demands them, then The state may as well give rights to a woman who want to marry 5 willing men or a man who wants to marry 20 willing wives. The state should recognise it? These are all "CONSENTING adults" so Where do we draw the line here?

Synnen Why NOT? Why would THAT be a problem, either? Who would it be hurting? The poor, poor people who think marriage = ONE man + ONE woman? BTW, I really hope you don't believe in divorce, either. Since marriage is supposed to be "til death do us part", then they should either kill one another or stick to it for life, hmmm

Yeeeeaaaaah... so why don't I just marry 28 of my buddies, men and women and get all the benefits of marriage. ;) Great... I see a lot of problems with that, don't you?

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Originally Posted by sassyT

Yeeeeaaaaah....... so why dont i just marry 28 of my buddies, men and women and get all the benefits of marriage. ;) Great... i see a lot of problems with that, dont you?

NO!!

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Originally Posted by NotMyName

Umm . . I'm hetero and love anal sex. Been getting it from my monogamous relationships for quite some time now and have never had any damaged vital organs (you think you're that big, huh?). It has never turned me into a lesbian and even if I wanted to experiment with another woman that doesn't make me a lesbian either. All right, Wolf, how many people EXACTLY have you met personally that were homosexual for more than ten minutes that decided they were sinners and switched that magical light switch that made them "normal"???

Sorry to burst your bubble Notmyname, that would defenately make you a lesbian. ;)
Don't lie to yourself.

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Originally Posted by talaniman

NO!!!

Mmm... then lets just have all americans marry each other and be one big "married couple" get benefits right?. lol I told you, allowing gays to marry will just turn this country into a lawless circus.

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Originally Posted by sassyT

Sorry to burst your bubble Notmyname, that would defenately make you a lesbian. ;)
Dont lie to yourself.

Have you heard the term "CURIOUS" before? When applied to this situation it's referred to as "bi-curious", or even "bi-sexual"... people can be attracted to both men and women.

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Originally Posted by ChihuahuaMomma

Have you heard the term "CURIOUS" before? When applied to this situation it's referred to as "bi-curious", or even "bi-sexual"....people can be attracted to both men and women.

You can sprinkle it with sugar and call it what you want but the bottom line is if you are a man and you have sexual relations with another man, you are a homosexual. Same goes for women.
A Bi-sexual woman is one who is has both lesbian and heterosexual sex.

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Originally Posted by sassyT

You can sprinkle it with sugar and call it what you want but the bottom line is if you are a man and you have sexual relations with another man, you are a homosexual. Same goes for women.
A Bi-sexual woman is one who is has both lesbian and heterosexual sex.

Thank you for giving me the obvious definition... that makes a person bi-sexual. I'm not the one that defined it as such. So is she a lesbian OR is she heterosexual? Neither, she's bisexual...

You are a very confused person, it seems.

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Originally Posted by sassyT

mmm... then lets just have all americans marry each other and be one big "married couple" get benefits right? ..lol i told you, allowing gays to marry will just turn this country into a lawless circus.

I disagree. Allow them to marry because they are human beings who deserve the same rights as the rest of the human beings in this country. They are consenting adults who can support each other...

Do you think its okay for a gay couple who have been together for 10 or 15 years to not be able to make a medical decision for the other when that person is unable? That's their spouse whether the law wants to recognize it or not... It's not fair, it's discrimination..

You might as well say that inter-racial marriages shouldn't be legal... statements opposing gay marriage are equally as ignorant.

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Originally Posted by sassyT

Yeeeeaaaaah....... so why dont i just marry 28 of my buddies, men and women and get all the benefits of marriage. ;) Great... i see a lot of problems with that, dont you?

Nope. Not as long as legal precedence is set up for the occasion. I mean, any or all of those people could then make medical decisions for you, though you'd have to have a living will stating WHICH of those people has precedence. They could all also inherit from you. And any of them could then have custody of your children.

Where's the problem?

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Originally Posted by sassyT

Sorry to burst your bubble Notmyname, that would defenately make you a lesbian. ;)
Dont lie to yourself.

At the MOST, it would make her bisexual. But... since she stated that she's just been curious, and hasn't acted on it--it most DEFINITELY doesn't make her more than bi-curious, especially since she has stated that she was attracted to MEN.

Simple answer: Its wrong and unnatural because it doesn't ever repeat itself in nature. There are no homosexual animals right? Basically when other creatures " mate" there is a male and female. Sex is fundementally for reproduction purposes only; humans made it for enjoyment. If it was right, or how nature intended, there would be other creatures on earth who mate with the same sex as well. I believe homosexuality is a choice; but not always a conscious one ( due to chilhood trauma, rape, etc.. )

I'm sorry, no, that's not correct.
Homosexual Activity Among Animals Stirs Debate
I had trauma as a child, I'm heterosexual... And believe there is nothing wrong with homosexuality.

People do have a right to sleep with who they want, but don't ask society to validate or support such behavior.

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Originally Posted by Kia

People do have a right to sleep with who they want, but don't ask society to validate or support such behavior.

Why not?

So... since I've answered YOUR questions, Sassy, I would like you to answer mine:

1. Do you believe in divorce?
2. Do you think that people should have sex (in ANY form) if they're not actively trying to have a child? Remember, this means that married couples past menopause would no longer be able to have sex, either.
3. If you believe that sex is ONLY for procreation, do you think that birth control should be legal?
4. Do you really have 28 friends that would be willing to marry you? I mean, I thought I was doing well with having 2-3 friends that would be willing, if situations were different.
5. Do you understand the words "adult" and "consenting"?

Seriously--you say you're not prejudiced against gays, yet EVERY argument you give makes them sound like lesser people, like animals, in fact.

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Originally Posted by Kia

People do have a right to sleep with who they want, but don't ask society to validate or support such behavior.

I don't need society's validation or support in this. But I refuse to accept their interference in private relations between consenting adults.

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Originally Posted by Kia

People do have a right to sleep with who they want, but don't ask society to validate or support such behavior.

Fine. Then I don't validate or support your right to marry a member of the opposite sex. I'm part of society, so therefore, you can't. You can sleep with whomever you want, though.

Good point... I want to elaborate on #2. That means also women who have had their "tubes tied", both men and women that are sterile.