Ask Me Help Desk

Ask Me Help Desk (https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/forum.php)
-   Religious Discussions (https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/forumdisplay.php?f=485)
-   -   This is about Chritian integrity. (https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/showthread.php?t=259562)

  • Sep 17, 2008, 08:35 AM
    Alty
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Wondergirl
    No, no, no. You are a pragmatic, strong-minded German freulein who gets things done. (I know. My ancestors are from Hannover.)

    Is that a nice way of saying, stubborn, pigheaded, lady? ;)

    Thanks Wondergirl. :)
  • Sep 17, 2008, 08:17 PM
    arcura
    Altenweg,
    Stubborn yes, but pig-headed NO!
    Peace and kindness,
    Fred
  • Sep 17, 2008, 08:59 PM
    Alty
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by arcura
    Altenweg,
    Stubborn yes, but pig-headed NO!.
    Peace and kindness,
    Fred

    :p
  • Sep 20, 2008, 06:52 AM
    Credendovidis
    Wondergirl to Altenweg : Post # 38 :
    Quote:

    ... You are a pragmatic, strong-minded German freulein who gets things done.
    Pragmatic : yes.
    Strong-minded : yes.
    Fräulein : not exactly, but very attractive - for sure!!

    :D:D:D:D:D

    .
  • Sep 20, 2008, 07:10 AM
    Fr_Chuck

    Ok, remember name calling, attacking others are not allowed even in discussion areas. Keep it on topic.
  • Sep 20, 2008, 03:05 PM
    simoneaugie
    It is interesting to me how non-Christians can get so incredibly offended by those "kind, tolerant Christians."

    What is really confusing, and I may be naïve in the extreme, is why non-Christians carry a grudge. Apparently a grudge. For me it is fear of being controlled and told that I am wrong.

    If a person has faith and belief in something, they are not wrong! They are human, and sane. Calling such a person nasty names is ridiculous. No, a discussion is not about one being right and the other wrong, that is a debate.

    In Fred's OP he mentioned that only God can judge us. That's what I just said, so we agree. Sure, there are some areas where our philosophies differ. That makes for an interesting discussion.

    Picking apart words to find a loophole to put another "in his place" is a waste of time, unless debate and ego satisfaction is all you're after.
  • Sep 20, 2008, 03:40 PM
    spyderglass

    "He that never changes his opinions, never corrects his mistakes, will never be wiser on the morrow than he is today."
    Tryon Edwards
  • Sep 20, 2008, 07:41 PM
    Credendovidis
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by 3 Chord Elijah
    Hello John, how is aton faring these days? Did he finish his movie? or did it finish him?

    Why would I know that, JJD ?
    Have you finally been kicked off by answerway?

    :D

    .
  • Sep 20, 2008, 07:48 PM
    Alty
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Fr_Chuck View Post
    Ok, remember name calling, attacking others are not allowed even in discussion areas. Keep it on topic.


    Chuck, I called myself a name, and it's okay, really. I know I'm stubborn, and pigheaded, but I have to agree that I am not a Frauelein, as the definition is an unmarried young lady. I am a Frau, women, married. :)

    I'm also sorry for straying off the topic. My bad. Hanging head in shame. Sorry. :o
  • Sep 20, 2008, 09:26 PM
    arcura
    In perhaps not the letter of but in the spirit of Christian integrity I welcome new member 3 Chord Elijah.
    Peace and kindness,
    Fred (arcura)
  • Sep 21, 2008, 08:04 PM
    arcura
    Altenweg,
    Yes please back to the topic.
    The questions are...
    How many "Christians" that you know tell others that they are going to hell when God alone will be the judge on who goes where?
    How many do you know who DO NOT practice Christian love as Jesus taught with both word and example?
    Are there any who post here doing those things?
    We all are sinners to one extent or the other so as Jesus says we all have some logs or foreign objects in our eye that needs to be taken care of before we charge others about the specks or foreign objects in their eyes.
    Peace and kindness,
    Fred
  • Sep 21, 2008, 08:30 PM
    Alty

    Quote:

    How many "Christians" that you know tell others that they are going to hell when God alone will be the judge on who goes where?
    Sadly, too many to count, and I gave up counting years ago.

    Quote:

    How many do you know who DO NOT practice Christian love as Jesus taught with both word and example?
    Again, too many. When I went to Catholic school, most of the Catholics I knew went to church, prayed for forgiveness and then went home to beat their wife, molest their kids, you name it. Those are the same "Christians" that told me I was going to hell, simply because I wasn't Catholic and didn't attend their church.

    Quote:

    Are there any who post here doing those things?
    There are, and sadly they stick out more than the good Christians do, because of their hateful ways and condescending attitude.

    Quote:

    We all are sinners to one extent or the other so as Jesus says we all have some logs or foreign objects in our eye that needs to be taken care of before we charge others about the specks or foreign objects in their eyes.
    I agree with 100%

    Peace and kindness to you as well Fred. :)
  • Sep 21, 2008, 09:27 PM
    arcura
    I believe this fits well with the subject "Christian Integrity"
    <><><>
    A man was being tailgated by a stressed out woman on a busy boulevard.

    Suddenly, the light turned yellow, just in front of him. He did the right thing, stopping at the crosswalk, even though he could have beaten the red light by accelerating through the intersection.

    The tailgating woman was furious and honked her horn, screaming in frustration, as she missed her chance to get through the intersection, dropping her cell phone

    As she was still in mid-rant, she heard a tap on her window and looked up into the face of a very serious police officer. The officer ordered her to exit her car with her hands up.

    He took her to the police station where she was searched, fingerprinted, photographed, and placed in a holding cell. After a couple of hours, a policeman approached the cell and opened the door. She was escorted back to the booking desk whe re the arresting officer was waiting with her personal effects.

    He said, 'I 'm very sorry for the mistake. You see, I pulled up behind your car while you were blowing your horn, flipping off the guy in front of you, and cussing a blue streak at him.' I noticed the 'What Would Jesus Do' bumper
    Sticker, the 'Choose Life' license plate holder, the 'Follow Me to Sunday School' bumper sticker, and the chrome-plated Christian fish emblem on the trunk..

    Naturally... I assumed you had stolen the car!'
    Priceless!!
    Fred
  • Sep 21, 2008, 09:38 PM
    Alty

    Wonderful story Fred, so true. :)
  • Sep 26, 2008, 09:26 PM
    Fr_Chuck

    Discussion, not chat, and no name calling, yes fred is correct, name calling will result in moderation.
  • Sep 27, 2008, 07:53 PM
    Credendovidis
    I like to go back to the topic, that is about "Christian integrity".

    I wonder : many Christians here seem to be rather intolerant to deviating views.
    However : I also note aggressive creationists who post about a 6000 year old universe, and who insist that "God" is the "Creator", and who attack every opposing view with creationist - unsupported - babble that claims to be scientific, but that is anything but scientific.

    Very few Christians here dare to admit that as far as they are concerned they accept science and scientific findings (like evolution) as reality.

    Just a very small group of religious fanatics "color" this religious discussion board with their creationists views. However these same fanatics seem to lack one of the basics of Christianity : love and forgiveness.

    Now : how is that for "Christian integrity"??

    :rolleyes:

    .
  • Sep 27, 2008, 08:16 PM
    Tj3
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Credendovidis View Post
    I wonder : many Christians here seem to be rather intolerant to deviating views.
    However : I also note aggressive creationists who post about a 6000 year old universe, and who insist that "God" is the "Creator", and who attack every opposing view with creationist - unsupported - babble that claims to be scientific, but that is anything but scientific.

    John,

    You have been presented with scientific evidence but many people on many boards but you won't look at it. On the other hand, you claimed that there is abundant OSE for evolution, and have been asked many many times by myself and others for that OSE for evolution, but every time failed to respond with the said evidence.

    It is therefore a matter of differing faiths - ours in the one true God, and yours in evolution.
  • Sep 27, 2008, 08:19 PM
    Alty
    Scientific evidence, or scientific speculation? There is no evidence that God exists. The bible isn't proof, nor are the stories therein.

    Sorry, I wish there was proof, but sadly, there isn't.
  • Sep 27, 2008, 08:25 PM
    Tj3
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Altenweg View Post
    Scientific evidence, or scientific speculation? There is no evidence that God exists. The bible isn't proof, nor are the stories therein.

    Sorry, I wish there was proof, but sadly, there isn't.

    Then, I am sorry to say, you have not looked at the evidence. Do you breathe? Can you see?

    Can you provide the OSE for evolution that John has been unable to provide?
  • Sep 27, 2008, 08:38 PM
    Alty
    Yes I breathe, yes I see, where's your proof that God made that possible? The bible? That's not proof, it's a man written book, not a God written book.

    Tj3, if you and I both witness an event, our accounts of that event will be very different, because we are human. Therefore, a book written by human beings, although possibly written about actual events, will not have the whole truth in it. That's just the way human beings are, fallible, not perfect. Therefore, the bible, in my opinion, is not accurate, as it was written by man.

    I do believe in God, but I'm not sure that he made the world. I believe the scientific explanation for the creation of the world. God may have had a hand in it, but I don't think he worked alone. :)
  • Sep 27, 2008, 09:08 PM
    Tj3
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Altenweg View Post
    Yes I breathe, yes I see, where's your proof that God made that possible? The bible? That's not proof, it's a man written book, not a God written book.

    So far I have not used the Bible as proof of God. You keep bringing up a strawman.

    If you breathe and see, can you tell me how those capabilities came to be?

    Which scientific explanation do you believe?
  • Sep 27, 2008, 09:15 PM
    Alty

    No, I'm not a scientist.

    If you claim that God gave us these gifts, then where is your proof?

    I'm not saying that God didn't help create everything, I'm simply saying that there is too much scientific proof that God didn't create it all single handedly.

    Like I said before, I think he may have helped science along, but did he do it alone? I don't think so. I don't have any proof, that's just what I believe.

    I do believe in God. I also believe in science. Science I have proof of, God, I do not.

    So tell me, should I believe in something no one can prove? I do, but I will be the first to admit that it is only belief, not fact.

    If you have actual proof of Gods existence, then why are we still having this conversation? Just show me your proof. I don't have any, but obviously you think you do.

    I'd love to see it.
  • Sep 27, 2008, 09:25 PM
    Tj3
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Altenweg View Post
    No, I'm not a scientist.

    I have a degree in science and I have examined the evidence, both the evidence regarding evolution and the evidence for the Bible.

    Quote:

    If you claim that God gave us these gifts, then where is your proof?
    Let's go through the questions at hand first, and I am sure that all will become clear in due course.

    John claims scientific background, but he never got any farther than you have in providing OSE for evolution.
  • Sep 27, 2008, 09:28 PM
    Wondergirl
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Altenweg View Post
    Therefore, a book written by human beings, although possibly written about actual events, will not have the whole truth in it. That's just the way human beings are, fallible, not perfect. Therefore, the bible, in my opinion, is not accurate, as it was written by man.

    I don't think "accurate" is the right word. You are on one corner of an intersection. I am on the corner diametrically opposed. Two cars crash. The police come and interview you and me as witnesses. Is your account of the accident inaccurate? No, it's not. It is accurate according to what you saw. Is my account of the accident inaccurate? No, it's not. It is accurate according to what I saw. Does your account match mine, and mine match yours? No. You and I saw the accident from two different vantage points. Neither is wrong, but neither tells the whole story of the accident.

    I did marital counseling for several years. I got one version of the marital relationship from the husband, and a different one from the wife. Neither was wrong; neither was 100% right. Each was telling about the relationship from his own point of view based on his own experiences and interpretation of those experiences. The wife reported as accurately as possible as she saw it, and the husband reported as accurately as possible as he saw it, but the real truth lay somewhere in the middle. Thankfully, my job wasn't to find out the real truth, but to help the couple listen to each other and find a way to compromise.

    The Bible isn't inaccurate because humans are fallible and imperfect, but because each writer experienced an event from one perspective. That's why it's so important to read and examine and even question the point of view of a writer to figure out on which "corner" he was standing when an event occurred. That's why some Christians here say that the Bible supports itself. They look at all the writers and their points of view to figure out what the truth of the Bible is.
  • Sep 27, 2008, 09:57 PM
    arcura
    Altenweg,
    I believe in some forms of evolution that science had proven, but not some of the theory about no God.
    I also believe in God.
    Peace and kindness,
    Fred
  • Sep 27, 2008, 09:58 PM
    Tj3
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by arcura View Post
    Altenweg,
    I believe in some forms of evolution that science had proven, but not some of the theory about no God.

    What evidence is there for evolution, Fred?
  • Sep 27, 2008, 10:08 PM
    Alty
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Tj3 View Post
    I have a degree in science and I have examined the evidence, both the evidence regarding evolution and the evidence for the Bible.



    Let's go through the questions at hand first, and I am sure that all will become clear in due course.

    John claims scientific background, but he never got any farther than you have in providing OSE for evolution.

    There's more proof of evolution then there is God.

    Like I said, I'm not a scientist, heck, science is my absolute worst subject. Don't ask me to provide OSE for evolution, I wouldn't know where to begin. That will be up to someone else to prove,not me.

    I don't need proof of God, I believe without it. But you are claiming to have proof, so why won't you provide it?
  • Sep 27, 2008, 10:16 PM
    Tj3
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Altenweg View Post
    There's more proof of evolution then there is God.

    Like I said, I'm not a scientist, heck, science is my absolute worst subject. Don't ask me to provide OSE for evolution, I wouldn't know where to begin. That will be up to someone else to prove,not me.

    If you or anyone else is going to make a claim that there is any proof for evolution, then it is important to have investigated what evidence there is, otherwise evolution is in fact a faith and a religion - because your belief that there is proof is taken on faith that it exists.

    You see, I used to believe in evolution. I defended evolution time and time again, and I wanted to strengthen my defense of evolution so I took the time to get into the evidence that existed for evolution in order to prove that evolution was scientifically based, and that the Genesis account was just a story. What I found shocked me. I found that the evidence showed the exact opposite.

    I even tried to back off to what is called theistic evolution to try to deal with the problems that I found, but that was even less compelling, so I found that if I was to be honest to the facts at hand, I had to accept that the Biblical account was true, not just because of my faith in the one true God, but also because the scientific evidence in favour of the Genesis account was so compelling.

    I wonder if you are aware that an increasing number of secular scientists are abandoning evolution and coming up with alternate theories simply because the problems with the theory of evolution make evolution unpallatable.

    You say that you do not understand science. Science is the study of God's creation. The evidence for God is all around us, but the strongest evidence is in science. That is why I am trying to get in the scientific evidence.
  • Sep 27, 2008, 10:20 PM
    arcura
    Tj3,
    We have been over that about my belief in evolution several times on other broads.
    I'll NOT go over it again with you because you refuse to accept why I believe as I do.
    You believe as you wish, so does cred and Alemweg.
    I believe as I wish.
    Accept it or not, that is your choice.
    You are NOT going to change what we believe so why bother trying to do so continually?
    Fred
    Fred
  • Sep 27, 2008, 10:22 PM
    Tj3
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by arcura View Post
    Tj3,
    We have been over that about my belief in evolution several times on other broads.

    Fred,

    You have never provided any evidence for your believe in evolution. That is why I asked.

    I have no problem with you believing as you wish. I do think that it is interesting that you describe evolution as your "belief" because that is what it is, a faith, a belief.
  • Sep 27, 2008, 10:26 PM
    Alty

    Well then, I guess that's what I believe. Evolution and the existence of God. I told you, I'm an anomaly. ;)

    I cannot start studying evolution now, science is beyond my capabilites, sad to admit, but true. I have to rely on scientists to do the research and studying for me, and hope that what they find is accurate.

    Fred, so true. We all have to agree to disagree, and leave it at that.

    I am more than willing to hear of any evidence, be it scientific or spiritual. But in order to convince me that the bible is accurate, I will need proof. You see, the bible is something I have researched, and I cannot accept that it is the "word of God".

    Peace.
  • Sep 27, 2008, 10:27 PM
    Alty
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Tj3 View Post
    Fred,

    You have never provided any evidence for your believe in evolution. That is why I asked.

    I have no problem with you believing as you wish. I do think that it is interesting that you describe evolution as your "belief" because that is what it is, a faith, a belief.

    Tj3, so is God. :)
  • Sep 27, 2008, 10:29 PM
    Tj3
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Altenweg View Post
    Tj3, so is God. :)

    Yes it is, but it is not a blind faith.

    It is also important to note that evolutionists claim evolution is a science, but yet when it comes down to it, we see that it is something which is believed through faith. Evolution is in fact a religious belief.
  • Sep 27, 2008, 10:31 PM
    arcura
    Tj3,
    As I said. NO!
    I will not go over that again with you.
    I have told you WHY I believe in the forms of evolution I do believe in several times.
    QUIT saying that I have not for I most certainly HAVE DONE SO.
    Fred
  • Sep 27, 2008, 10:36 PM
    Tj3
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Altenweg View Post
    Well then, I guess that's what I believe. Evolution and the existence of God. I told you, I'm an anomaly. ;)

    I once believed that also, but when I examined the facts, including the scientific evidence, I was force to accept what the evidence showed and to abandon evolution completely.

    Quote:

    I cannot start studying evolution now, science is beyond my capabilites, sad to admit, but true. I have to rely on scientists to do the research and studying for me, and hope that what they find is accurate.
    Which scientists? This is the point. Scientists are of various opinions, and even those who believe in evolution will tell you, if they are honest, that the belief in evolution is based upon mounds of assumptions.

    The facts behind evolution are not so difficult that a layman cannot understand. What you need to do is to look at the claims of evolution, and ask questions. Ask what evidence there is to validate that. Ask about the assumptions, and the holes in the evidence, and see where that leads. That is a good starting point. There are also excellent scientific books available. One written by a leading scientist in the field, Michael Behe is called "The Edge of Evolution". This is entirely a science book, but written so that a layman can understand it.

    Fred, so true. We all have to agree to disagree, and leave it at that.

    I am more than willing to hear of any evidence, be it scientific or spiritual. But in order to convince me that the bible is accurate, I will need proof. You see, the bible is something I have researched, and I cannot accept that it is the "word of God".

    Peace.[/QUOTE]
  • Sep 27, 2008, 10:37 PM
    Tj3
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by arcura View Post
    Tj3,
    As I said. NO!
    I will not go over that again with you.
    I have told you WHY I believe in the forms of evolution I do believe in several times.
    QUIT saying that I have not for I most certainly HAVE DONE SO.
    Fred

    No Fred, you have no never given any evidence for your belief in evolution. All you have given is the refusal such as you are doing now. But if you cannot or will not validate your belief, that is fine. You are certainly welcome to have faith in whatever you wish to place your faith.
  • Sep 27, 2008, 10:46 PM
    Alty

    This is Freds thread and I think we should respect his request and no longer discuss evolution, we have once again strayed from the topic.

    There are other threads that would be better suited for this type of discussion. I'd be glad to hear your arguments there. :)

    I apologize Fred.

    Peace.
  • Sep 27, 2008, 11:00 PM
    arcura
    Tj3,
    I see you have gone back to you old habit of making false accusations about what I have or have not done.
    I'll not respond any more to you because of that.

    Fred
  • Sep 28, 2008, 05:09 AM
    Credendovidis
    Nothing has changed with Tj3 but his handle, and his use of his engineering degree as a "science degree" (if that were true, I have 2 such "science degrees" !

    Once more I like to go back to the topic, that is about "Christian integrity".

    I wonder : many Christians here seem to be rather intolerant to deviating views.
    However : I also note aggressive creationists who post about a 6000 year old universe, and who insist that "God" is the "Creator", and who attack every opposing view with creationist - unsupported - babble that claims to be scientific, but that is anything but scientific.

    Very few Christians here dare to admit that as far as they are concerned they accept science and scientific findings (like evolution) as reality.

    Just a very small group of religious fanatics "color" this religious discussion board with their creationists views. However these same fanatics seem to lack one of the basics of Christianity : love and forgiveness.

    Now : how is that for "Christian integrity"??

    :rolleyes:

    .
  • Sep 28, 2008, 06:18 AM
    Tj3
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by arcura View Post
    Tj3,
    I see you have gone back to you old habit of making false accusations about what I have or have not done.
    I'll not respond any more to you because of that.

    Fred

    Fred,

    You responses on here prove what I said.

  • All times are GMT -7. The time now is 02:07 AM.