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  • May 12, 2012, 08:45 AM
    Wondergirl
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by mysticman72 View Post
    For the record, my experience with suicides is that immediately after death they have to meet the Father.

    That's true for all of us, not just suicides.

    And in your "experience"??
  • May 12, 2012, 09:46 AM
    mysticman72
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Wondergirl View Post
    That's true for all of us, not just suicides.

    And in your "experience"?????

    The meeting between suicides and others who pass away is different. Others are ushered into heaven by the angels. Suicides meet with the Father to determine what they have to do next. They are "educated" about their life and given "options" since they purposely cut short the life that God had planned out for them.

    Yes, we must all meet the Father and answer for what we have done. But there's a difference between one who has cut short the life that God gave them and one who lived out their life-choices good and bad.

    Think about it this way... God has a plan in place and a purpose for every human life. He puts people and circumstances in your life for a reason - to instigate a choice. Your journey in life based on these choices is what the Father uses to teach you more about Him and the truths of the universe. In other words a suicide has created a short-circuit in the universe that has to be repaired. He has different options to repair that individual's short-circuit.

    I realize that this sounds completely strange, un-Biblical and un-Christian. I've learned over the years that reality is often much different than what I believe to be true based on a closed-source religious belief system. My blog explains it all. My experiences are not something that I wish to debate here in this kind of arena. I simply offer "answers" that I believe to be true and leave high-level theology and cosmology debates for other sites.

    Peace...
  • May 12, 2012, 10:22 AM
    Wondergirl
    How did you gain all this inside information about suicide and forgiveness what happens when we die and what God's plan is?
  • May 12, 2012, 10:58 AM
    mysticman72
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Wondergirl View Post
    How did you gain all this inside information about suicide and forgiveness what happens when we die and what God's plan is?

    Again, read my blog. The address is in my profile. It's not "inside" information, it's what was revealed to me, just like things are revealed to you that the Father wants you to know and understand. I didn't ask for it, didn't want it and certainly don't recommend my life to anyone else.

    My actual "belief system" is predominantly Catholic (though I've never been one) with a mixture of evangelicalism (which I've always belonged to). So, when I speak of forgiveness, sin and other issues, I will generally point to a Catholic viewpoint which I believe to be correct, though one should not take my views as the definitive Catholic belief.

    I detect an understandable indifference to the information I gave in my post. I only know what I know, no more, no less. Even if the Father tried to give me all the truth in the world my mind would not be able to handle it, neither could yours. He gives us what we need to know when we need to know it and how He wants us to know it. That's His business and He's pretty good at it.

    If you would like to ask specific questions about the content at my site, feel free to email me. I'd be glad to share.

    Peace...
  • May 12, 2012, 11:48 AM
    Wondergirl
    I asked that this thread be moved to a discussion board, so there isn't such limitation as to where this thread could go.

    The revelations I've received are entirely different from yours, mm. So as Pilate rhetorically asked, 'What is truth?"
  • May 12, 2012, 02:00 PM
    mysticman72
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Wondergirl View Post
    I asked that this thread be moved to a discussion board, so there isn't such limitation as to where this thread could go.

    The revelations I've received are entirely different from yours, mm. So as Pilate rhetorically asked, 'What is truth?"

    If it is moved, where does it go? Never mind! I just haven't browsed enough to figure that out :)

    The revelations that you have received are for you and your path. They are neither inferior or superior to mine. They are not false, making mine untrue and vice-versa. God would not tell me that the earth is round and turn around and tell you it was flat. He does not lie.

    I can tell you that I've been down many roads in life and they have all taught me something. Growing up I believed that evangelical Christianity and Scripture were the ultimate truth. Then in order that I could do missionary work and really prove to unbelievers that my way was correct, I began to study other religions. Well, few years into that scenario, I found Buddhism and was enamored with it. I took vows from a Zen Buddhist priest and became a practicing Buddhist. I had done exactly the opposite of what I planned on doing! Instead of converting others, I was converted myself :)

    I've been through the whole idea of who is right and who is wrong and what the truth is. Frankly, I'm done telling others what the absolute truth is. But, I love talking about beliefs and experiences that make us who we are. And, in the end, we each have to give an account of our lives. If I am ultimately wrong about everything I believe when I meet my Maker, I will humbly ask Him to eternally teach me... in Heaven... what the absolute truth is :) I know that I will be wrong about many things and it certainly won't be any surprise to Him. I will bow before Him in awe and humility regardless of His decision on what to do with me.

    Peace...
  • May 12, 2012, 02:10 PM
    Wondergirl
    It was moved from Christianity to Religious Discussions.

    We're there now, so discuss away.
  • May 12, 2012, 04:48 PM
    mysticman72
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Fr_Chuck View Post
    I remember Jesus asking the Father to forgive the people for putting him to death while he was on the cross, something along the lines of forgive them, they know not what they do. Then of course we see just not knowing something is wrong, does not mean you don't have to be forgiven, the excuse you don't know it is wrong, does not make it right, so people who do things they think is right but it is not, still need forgiveness.

    1. so failure to know it is wrong does not take away need for forgivenss

    Jesus taught his follows how to pray, in what we call the Lords prayer, We ask God to forgive our sins, and it appears this is to be prayed often, if we are forgiven of all future sins when we became a Christian, why did Christ teach us to ask for forgiveness in our regular prayers ? He would have merely said, thank you for already having forgiven me, not forgive me my sins.

    it is obvious at least to me, that forgiveness is not a one time only event, but we have to ask forgiveness all the time for our sins.

    2. we have a need to ask forgiveness.

    Good example.

    I don't think Jesus said these things just to go through some religious motions to remind us that we are already forgiven of everything... just like I don't think that Jesus telling us that the bread is His body and the wine is His blood is just a reminder of His sacrifice. We need to ask for forgiveness. Merely assuming that we are okay with God and we can go on our merry way is a dangerous attitude and way of life.

    Peace...
  • May 12, 2012, 06:37 PM
    classyT
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Fr_Chuck View Post
    I remember Jesus asking the Father to forgive the people for putting him to death while he was on the cross, something along the lines of forgive them, they know not what they do. Then of course we see just not knowing something is wrong, does not mean you don't have to be forgiven, the excuse you don't know it is wrong, does not make it right, so people who do things they think is right but it is not, still need forgiveness.

    1. so failure to know it is wrong does not take away need for forgivenss

    Jesus taught his follows how to pray, in what we call the Lords prayer, We ask God to forgive our sins, and it appears this is to be prayed often, if we are forgiven of all future sins when we became a Christian, why did Christ teach us to ask for forgiveness in our regular prayers ? He would have merely said, thank you for already having forgiven me, not forgive me my sins.

    it is obvious at least to me, that forgiveness is not a one time only event, but we have to ask forgiveness all the time for our sins.

    2. we have a need to ask forgiveness.

    Fr_chuck,

    We are instructed to rightly divide the word of Truth. Jesus walked on this earth as an example of pure Grace. However, he was a Jew under the law. Many things that the Lord Jesus said was to the Jew, Under the Law. Plus, he hadn't died and rose again. The church as we know it didn't begin until he revealed grace to Paul. So when we read the word, we have to understand who it is written to and who was writing it and what they understood when they wrote it. All of his word is inspired, all of his word is written for us... but it isn't all written to us.

    Please give me verses in Paul's epistles where we are instructed to ask for forgiveness for our sins on a daily basis. NOPE.. you won't find it. WHY? Because we are completely righteous before the Lord... not because of OUR works... but because of Jesus WORK.

    We get in Galatians that Paul had a gentlemen's agreement to go to the Gentiles... Peter and the others to the Jews. Paul is OUR apostle and he never wrote to ask for forgiveness in his epistles.
  • May 12, 2012, 06:50 PM
    Wondergirl
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by classyT View Post
    where we are instructed to ask for forgiveness for our sins on a daily basis.

    "Forgive us our trespasses as we forgive those who trespass against us."

    Mark 11: 24 Therefore I tell you, whatever you ask in prayer, believe that you have received it, and it will be yours. 25 And whenever you stand praying, forgive, if you have anything against anyone, so that your Father also who is in heaven may forgive you your trespasses.”
  • May 12, 2012, 09:18 PM
    classyT
    WG.

    I asked where the Apostle PAUL instructed us to ask the Lord for forgiveness of daily sins... after Jesus died and rose again. And... don't bother looking.. he didn't tell us to. IN FACT... he proclaimed we were the righteousness of God in Christ Jesus.
  • May 12, 2012, 09:32 PM
    Wondergirl
    From The Value of Daily Confession and Repentance --

    Although we have been redeemed and have new life with Christ, we still live in a world and in a body polluted with sin, and the devil constantly seeks to lead us astray. The result is a continual struggle between our spiritual self in Christ, that is, our new man, and our unspiritual self, that is, our sinful nature. "For the sinful nature desires what is contrary to the Spirit, and the Spirit what is contrary to the sinful nature. They are in conflict with each other, so that you do not do what you want" (Gal 5:17). Paul describes the wearying frustrations of such daily struggles within us: "I do not understand what I do. For what I want to do, I do not do, but what I hate I do. . . . I have the desire to do what is good, but I cannot carry it out. For what I do is not the good I want to do; no, the evil I do not want to do--this I keep on doing. . . . When I want to do good, evil is right there with me" (Rom 7:15, 18, 19, 21). Since such a battle wages within us, since the devil never ceases to offer up many temptations, since we are sinners and sin daily--the need to daily confess and repent is very real!
  • May 12, 2012, 09:35 PM
    Athos
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by mysticman72 View Post
    If it is moved, where does it go? Nevermind! I just haven't browsed enough to figure that out :)

    The revelations that you have received are for you and your path. They are neither inferior or superior to mine. They are not false, making mine untrue and vice-versa. God would not tell me that the earth is round and turn around and tell you it was flat. He does not lie.

    I can tell you that I've been down many roads in life and they have all taught me something. Growing up I believed that evangelical Christianity and Scripture were the ultimate truth. Then in order that I could do missionary work and really prove to unbelievers that my way was correct, I began to study other religions. Well, few years into that scenario, I found Buddhism and was enamored with it. I took vows from a Zen Buddhist priest and became a practicing Buddhist. I had done exactly the opposite of what I planned on doing! Instead of converting others, I was converted myself :)

    I've been through the whole idea of who is right and who is wrong and what the truth is. Frankly, I'm done telling others what the absolute truth is. But, I love talking about beliefs and experiences that make us who we are. And, in the end, we each have to give an account of our lives. If I am ultimately wrong about everything I believe when I meet my Maker, I will humbly ask Him to eternally teach me...in Heaven...what the absolute truth is :) I know that I will be wrong about many things and it certainly won't be any surprise to Him. I will bow before Him in awe and humility regardless of His decision on what to do with me.

    Peace...

    Mysticman - Thank you for bringing light and intelligence to this board which is frequently riddled with "book idolatry".

    Your approach is fresh, and the path you have chosen is an important one.

    Peace...
  • May 12, 2012, 09:37 PM
    Athos
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Wondergirl View Post
    from The Value of Daily Confession and Repentance --

    Although we have been redeemed and have new life with Christ, we still live in a world and in a body polluted with sin, and the devil constantly seeks to lead us astray. .........................!

    Excellent quote.
  • May 12, 2012, 10:07 PM
    mysticman72
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by classyT View Post
    Fr_chuck,

    We are instructed to rightly divide the word of Truth. Jesus walked on this earth as an example of pure Grace. However, he was a Jew under the law. Many things that the Lord Jesus said was to the Jew, Under the Law. Plus, he hadn't died and rose again. The church as we know it didn't begin until he revealed grace to Paul. So when we read the word, we have to understand who it is written to and who was writing it and what they understood when they wrote it. All of his word is inspired, all of his word is written for us...but it isn't all written to us.

    Please give me verses in Paul's epistles where we are instructed to ask for forgiveness for our sins on a daily basis. NOPE..you won't find it. WHY? because we are completely righteous before the Lord...not because of OUR works...but because of Jesus WORK.

    We get in Galatians that Paul had a gentlemen's agreement to go to the Gentiles....Peter and the others to the Jews. Paul is OUR apostle and he never wrote to ask for forgiveness in his epistles.

    I'm confused (which happens often). St. Paul has several books attributed to him. But, there is a library of 66 works throughout Scripture (in the Protestant canon). So... I don't get it. What about St. Matthew and St. Luke and the prophets? Why did Jesus Himself teach us the Lord's Prayer? Paul is our apostle? If Paul didn't say it then we Gentiles don't have to do it? Truly baffled.

    Peace...
  • May 12, 2012, 10:15 PM
    Athos
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by mysticman72 View Post
    I'm confused........... Truly baffled.

    Welcome to the club.
  • May 13, 2012, 02:49 AM
    CoruptedAngel
    0.o *Wow* this question went along a lot further than I thought. But thank you all for answering it for me :)
  • May 13, 2012, 07:04 AM
    DoulaLC
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by CoruptedAngel View Post
    0.o *Wow* this question went along a lot further than I thought. But thank you all for answering it for me :)


    :) As you can see, it will depend on who you ask and what their beliefs are. This is true of most questions dealing with faith and belief.

    I have mentioned it several times on different threads; what someone believes, or doesn't believe, often depends on where they were born, the family they were raised in, and what they have gone out to study on their own. It's not often that people will convert from how they were raised.

    An Englishman would likely believe something quite different if he had been born and raised in China, an Iranian would believe something different if they had been born and raised in Germany, and an American would likely believe something different if they had been born and raised in Sudan.

    Different beliefs, different paths, same destination.

    Mankind often has a difficult time accepting the possibility of alternate paths from what one believes... natural arrogance frequently prevents the consideration.

    I don't believe "God" has that problem.
  • May 13, 2012, 08:38 AM
    mysticman72
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Athos View Post
    Mysticman - Thank you for bringing light and intelligence to this board which is frequently riddled with "book idolatry".

    Your approach is fresh, and the path you have chosen is an important one.

    Peace...

    Thank you for the kind words. I like the discussions here and look forward to seeing you around :)

    Peace...

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