Originally Posted by Wondergirl
I think, because of your early experiences, you have thrown out the baby with the bathwater. Your gripes are with the Church and especially with "well-meaning" members, and not with the Bible (that people take and run with).
Is it completely factual? What does that mean? Did things happen exactly as the Bible said? Some people think so, but others don't.
Even if one doesn't "believe in" the Bible, there are ways to appreciate it--its prose and poetry, its stories of failure and forgiveness, its ideas on how to treat others.*
The Bible has in all sorts of ways (good as well as bad) affected the lives of millions of people. Certainly if the Bible is "just a book," that wouldn't be the case.
Maybe learning to *appreciate the Bible is a place to start now that you're a grownup with some life experiences behind you and a much more analytical and commonsensical way of thinking.