Originally Posted by
Wondergirl
I grew up in one of the conservative branches of the Lutheran church, the Missouri-Synod. In fact, my dad was a pastor all his adult life. Despite the fact that M-S Lutherans tend toward fundamentalism, one lesson my dad taught was that we are to do our best to follow Jesus' two greatest commandments: love God and love each other. Yes, the Ten Commandments are a guide for us, but if we don't show love in our efforts to keep them, we have failed. How then can we show love to the unchurched, to those of another religion or who have no religion, to those who look different from us, to those who ARE in some way different from us? My dad often say the OT shows us our sin (SOS), shows us where we have gone wrong, whereas the NT shows our salvation (SOS), shows us the best possible way to live, a la the Good Samaritan, by showing unconditional love to others.
Why do Christians insist that gays and their partners are living in sin, when it is the Christians themselves who won't allow any kind of marriage or even civil contract for gays. I know several gays in long-term relationships, some with adopted children. They have created stable families and make wonderful parents! Communities are enhanced with their presence. I pray that more church bodies will open their hearts and minds to include gays in their membership.