What should I do? Guy help
I just got out of a relationship with my kids dad for 7 years, which the cops got involved, in which most of the years I have been with him have not been good. He is the type of guy who thinks about himself, the type that puts you down, makes you feel bad, and has put his hands on me a few times.
I've been unhappy for a long time, but I'm so confused. I met a younger guy at my job. I'd say a year ago. Since then we been going out. He is great. Real nice, takes me out, and he pays. When I'm with him, I'm happy. The times we are together its great, but when were not, I sometimes feel like I don't exist. He never really starts conversations, and I always seem to have to be the first to text. Sometimes it takes minutes, or sometimes it takes days to hear back. I just never really know with him. I really care about him but I'm not sure if its worth it?
So in the past few day the kids dad has been trying to get me to take him back. He says he'll change. He doesn't want to be that Guy anymore. Says he getting help. He loves me.
I'm just not sure what I should do? Should I pick one or the other? Should I get rid of both? Help!!