[spiceberry]

Hi everyone... I just joined this forum...

I am 25 yrs old and single. Three weeks ago, me and my girlfriend went to a lounge and were just chilling over there. Suddenly the owner of the place walks up to us and a conversation begins between him and my friend. She just mentions that I am single and he smiles at me.
He is 31 yrs old and single and recently opened up this lounge. So we end up going there on the next weekend again and this time I was having a nice time with more friends and he walks up to our table and is really chatting with my friends while I just sit and watch him. Finally I walk to where is is sitting and gather guts to tell him that I really like his eyes. And he says "what do u wanna do about it?" and I say" i dunno...u say and i ll put it into action" he says "maybe u wanna kiss me"...
So the night rolls by and before I am ready to leave he takes my number.
He texts me to say how awesome I was and he can't explain that something about me...
We had phone conversations for 2-3 days but he called me at odd hours after he closes the lounge around 4am. I didn't mind it because I wake up by that time. Sometimes he told me he ll call me back but doesn't.
I kept thinking of him all week( day dreaming at work and waiting for his text). I texted him randomly and he would respond really late and I would get irritated but the rush of emotion was taking over me. I started looking forward to meeting him again but when I asked him, he said" I would love to meet u but all my time is taken by work and sleep."

I really like him and was quite bummed when he told me that one time when I didn't answer his call( on purpose because I wanted to make him want me and see if he tries to call again or text but that didn't happen) and two days later when I met him, he felt I was ignoring him and then trouble in paradise started and I don't know if I should be trying to talk to him now because maybe its like I was really available ( showed up at the lounge with my friends 4 times in 3 weeks!) after I started falling for him and he saw the mystery till we didn't talk.

Please help me figure out how I can get things working between us...
Thanks