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galestinson · Mar 2, 2012, 07:31 AM

Me and this guy were in a relationship for two years, then he breaks off the relationship, saying can we be friends. But we never stop seeing each other. We are still having sex, and I'm still in love with him.

Now it's going on six years of seeing each other. I'm lonely and I want a relationship, really getting tired of this. I don't know what his feelings are for me, he gets angry if I don't answer his text, or phone calls right away. He think I'm with somebody else then he gets an attitude, I'm confused. Don't know what to do. He want to be in my life, but not in a relationship. And I'm not feeling that.

talaniman · Mar 2, 2012, 08:35 AM

You have been a sex buddy, friends with benefits for 4 years and are tired of it? I would be too! You should have dumped him, and stop sharing your body YEARS ago.

Do so NOW, or keep being miserable. Who cares what he wants any more? You should not, so get him out of your life. Not easy maybe, but better than this crap you have ALLOWED him to put you through!

mmresd · Mar 2, 2012, 11:42 AM

This is partially your fault. You have allowed this to go on too long. Let him get mad when you don't answer his texts, and say no to the sex without commitment. Who cares? He is nothing of yours, just a guy that has taken advantage of how much you like him. He gets to be single and yet have you committed to him. Stop it.

SoftSummer · Mar 2, 2012, 01:59 PM

Girl you better leave!! He's just taking advantage of you. I know that sounds direct but this calls for a major wake-up call. He's just using you. I'm sorry that you're still in love with him. I understand the whole partiality to complete jerks. Trust me. I get it. But you got to leave this one alone because this is just blocking you from what you really want; a true, healthy relationship. Stop talking to him, stop texting him, and most of all stop sleeping with him. You're obviously not happy in this situation so it's time to move on. Maybe tell him over the phone one last time that at this point you're just need some distance and don't use the term "we". None of this is about him anymore. It's all about you. Distance and time are the two best things that heal broken hearts. Use them fervently.