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Ulala86 · Jan 21, 2008, 08:22 AM

OK guys, I need your advice please. I started seeing this new boy that I really like. He just ended a relationship with his ex and everything is fine. We both like each other, no doubt about that but every time I ask him about what he wants out of this, his response is I really like you and I don't want you to think that I am just using you but I am not ready for a relationship. And that is fine with me. I don't want to push him into anything, but he told me yesterday that he thinks he's falling in love with me! It kind of sacred me, but in a way I like it because I have strong feelings also but I am so confused. Why does he think he loves me but doenst want to be my boyfriend. Am I crazy or this doesn't make any sense?

Please let me know what you guys think...
Thanks

s_cianci · Jan 21, 2008, 08:29 AM

Just take everything with a grain of salt. You hardly know each other and he's just coming off a failed relationship.

mafiaangel180 · Jan 21, 2008, 11:28 AM

Yeah, sounds like he's reboundin' it. Never believe the words until you see the actions. That word is TOO easy to throw around.

sj12345 · Mar 29, 2008, 02:57 PM

Tell him that your confused and ask why he doesn't want to go out wiyh u.

talaniman · Mar 29, 2008, 04:21 PM

This is what I posted in Feb.

If this is the same guy in your other posts, that has you confused, then I suggest you talk to him and find out from the horses mouth what's up. Your only dating, and has said the love word, but is hesitant on a relationship. I wouldn't be to gung ho with having a lot with him, as obviously he needs time and space to get over his ex. I think you would be better served backing away, and dating someone else right now. Or you could be his rebound and help him over his past ex. Your choice. Sorry.

If this is the same guy, my opinion hasn't changed at all. Seems you haven't made a lot of progress from then to now either.

xshorty_jessx · Dec 9, 2008, 02:03 PM

He could be very confused was he in a really long relationship at all before spliting with his ex? I'll be onist it does seem like that he's confused with his feelings its kind of hard to explain because me and my boyfriend split loads of times but the last time we split was after a year and a half we wasn't together for a all 3 week he ended up sleeping with a number of different girls this hurt very much and he ended up doing stuff with one of my so called best mates but I didn't get when he was texting her telling her that he was falling for her but he still was telling me he still loved me after everything was sorted he realised that it was me he was thinking about and was very messed up in the head for some reason he was saying that stuff because he had her in the front of his mind while having me in the back of it were fine now though. He seems like he wants more time don't keep asking him why he hasn't made a move yet he needs time to think and get over his ex if he really does like you like he says then he will get with you in his own time. Hope that helps you out abit.