[hoplesschic]

I cheated on my boyfriend of three weeks last night while I was out getting messed up. He found out through a friend of his; when he came home I realized he knew. We've been pacing, avoiding each other, but we have discussed it a little. I've said things like "I'll do anything to regain your trust if you could can find a way to forgive me". I can only apologize so many times, I know this and I guess I'mfinished with apologizing and trying to talk. What's my next move?

[Sariss]

To me, cheating is something that is not forgivable. You can try to regain his trust, but don't be surprised if he decides to break up with you.

[Just Dahlia]

I would really work on the "out getting messed up" part before you should even have a relationship. I'm not trying to be mean, but that seems to be the problem:)

It is hard to forgive, but you have been only together for 3 weeks, so it could happen. It sounds like the relationship wasn't worth saving if you cheated that quickly:confused:

[talaniman]

I think the ball is in his court, and its up to him what the next move is.

[Kitkat22]

"Out getting messed up" and ended up having sex with someone. You need to grow up a bit and learn how to not get messed up.

You really don't need a boyfriend. In fact if I were him I would be a little leery about the kind of STD
You could bring home.

[Just Dahlia]

I think the ball is in his court, and its up to him what the next move is.

Oh LOL, I understand what you meant now:o

[aimee_tt]

To be honest if you have been goingout for three weeks and you cheated why would you or he bother to try work things out?

Was this typo did you mean 3 years?

[lifeistough75]

Tell him to come on this board so I can tell him if he does not break up with you, he is stupid.