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Karlag · Nov 13, 2009, 12:39 PM

Hi I have a serious problem I am extremely jealous of my partner this ia what has led me to be this way : about two years ago we met and it was love at first sight we started a relationship although he was married but he had been separated over a year well our relationship was going great and we got pregnant then when I was 3 months pregnant I had to go out of town for two days well in that time he took off and didn't say anything I didn't know where he had gone or anything the next day I found out he had left with her and his two daughters So I was devastated but I had to be stronf for my baby about a week later he looked for me and asked me to forgive him that he loved me but he missed his daughters and that was the only way that shw would let him see them and might I sau that this woman ia crazy shw tried to run over me when she found out I was pregnant and the police didn't so anythinf becauae legally she is his wife and the law here in mexico is useless well anyway I ended up giving him another chance after 3 months now our baby is 7 months old and we are still together but I am constantly fighting with him because I can't stand that she calls him because sometimes she calls him for the dumbest things just excuses and she has done a lot of things to try to split us up now I'm to the point to where I don't want him to see his daughters because she is there and she won't let him see them if I'm around and its just a constant fight over anything that has to do with his daughters or her. He hasn't done anything bad he always takes care of me and treats me like a queen but I'm just always afraid something is going to happen and is getting worse each day I don't know what to do. In advance thank you for helping me

spitvenom · Nov 13, 2009, 12:48 PM

Oh he did something bad. He got another woman pregnant while he was married!! What makes you think he will be faithful to you? Fact is he has two kids and his WIFE will always be in the picture whether you like it or not. Either learn to live with it or get out now. Sorry if this is rough but I have no respect for home wreckers.

Karlag · Nov 13, 2009, 01:00 PM

I know it mighy sound like I wrecked his family but they were already in the divorce process and they lived in different cities

J_9 · Nov 13, 2009, 01:00 PM

Originally Posted by Karlag

I know it mighy sound like i wrecked his family but they were already in the divorce process and they lived in different cities

Until he had the signed divorce papers in hand he was still legally married.

I wish · Nov 13, 2009, 01:37 PM

Harshness warning

Originally Posted by Karlag

I know it mighy sound like i wrecked his family but they were already in the divorce process and they lived in different cities

You decided to get involved with a man who was married at the time. Whether he was separated or not, he was still married. Therefore, you would qualify as his rebound. Now you have to face the consequences of your actions, i.e. the suffering that you're going through. You didn't have to rush a sexual relationship while he was still legally married. You could have had a regular friendship and see if he actually divorces his wife first: https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/parent...dy-399072.html

At least he's owning up to his actions. He's been taking care of you and your daughter.

It's too late to go back in time to change the past. We can only move forward.
So until he's finalized his divorced, you're just going to have to bare with his wife's attempts to contact him. Eventually, it might be prudent for him to change his number, but we'll see if he really does go through with his divorce.