[yoshiko]

I'm 18 years old girl and still schooling. I just had a crush about 4 months ago and he also accepts that he likes me and asked me to be his girlfriend. I did accept that at the beginning he told me that he is poor, but I said that it's okay for me because I liked him so much. We have become partners, but after sometime he said that we have to study more for our exams and we should stop this affair, because he told that it is the best way to study. He told that he has money problems in home so he has to study to earn money so we broke up.

He is coming to my classes and most of the time I notice that he is looking at me but we have never talked after we broke up. He is looking at me sadly when I'm not seeing him. I still love him. I really do? Whenever I see him my heart is aching. I feel like I just going to die, but I can't tell him that and messed up his mind, but I still love him. What should I do?

[Fr_Chuck]

It appears, you blindly say yes to whatever he wants and likes, with no concern over what you like.

Your wording makes it sound, like you are not from a standard Western society, but perhaps come from a society and culture where dating is much different.

It is possible that he really is busy and wants to study more, or after having the affair with you, he is ready to move on to someone else. Or perhaps after dating for a while, decided he did not really want you, and made the busy as an excuse.

You needed to have spoken all of your feelings to him, so he fully understands.

[joannaparker31]

It is always better to truly express your feelings to your partner. You have to make him understand how you feel about him. If he still ignores, remember that you are young and have enough time to fall in love all over again. Stay positive.

[talaniman]

This "partnership" has ended because he didn't know how to manage it in his life, OR had no desire too. If you cannot honestly express yourself, and get him to see how best to manage this "partnership" then there is no point in holding on to it and it's time to move forward in your life.

It was his decision to end it, so let him be miserable by himself. You must let go, and start your own healing. It will hurt for a while, no way around that. It always sucks to get dumped no matter the reason for it.

[yoshiko]

It is always better to truly express your feelings to your partner. You have to make him understand how you feel about him. If he still ignores, remember that you are young and have enough time to fall in love all over again. Stay positive.

Thank you.