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    Jul 13, 2013, 06:35 PM
    Help with relationship
    Need help with what to do I've been in a relationship with my girlfriend for 10 years on aand off dated other people and all that but recently I finally got back together for the past 4 months and everything was great at first then I started acting like my old ways with being lazy and not wanting to do anything and just lay around and now she left me and started to see someone else. I never felt like this before I truly love this woman but she won't text me or answer my calls any more and if she does she replies she's busy. I'm 26 and she's 25 should I fight for her or just let her go
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    Jul 13, 2013, 06:44 PM
    Give it up... ever hear the phrase... flogging a dead horse?

    If you were men to be together... you wouldn't have an on again, off again things going. This is the classic example of flogging a dead horse... no matter how much you beat it... its not going to get up and run for you.
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    Jul 13, 2013, 06:51 PM
    Yea I figured. It just sucks dealing with my feeling being so out of control
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    Jul 13, 2013, 07:03 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by ab20615 View Post
    Yea I figured. it just sucks dealing with my feeling being so out of control
    Trust me... you aren't alone... a lot of people do the same thing... only most tend to come to realize it a bit sooner than 10 years... a few... even longer.
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