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    Oct 29, 2012, 02:20 PM
    How do I get happier in my relationship?
    We started happy and after me getting jealous about all these other girls he's tired of hearing it. I never want to lose him, and he says I'm never happy and I don't know what to do. Because a part of me is happy to know that he's with me and he's all mine but I'm miserable with the fact if having to check to see what girl he's talking to next and if they like him, or if they're talking about certain stuff. We get into fights a lot but we love each other. And it's mostly arguing, not fighting. I just don't know how to be more happier in this relationship. And I'm not looking for anything sexual I'm too young for that right now, but I know that he wants it bad, and we talk about it a lot. But we aren't going to do it. He already told me he's not going to pressure me, and that I don't have to do anything I don't want to do. But I want to know how to be happier with him after all that's happened..?
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    Oct 29, 2012, 02:48 PM
    How old is he? How old are you?

    Has anyone ever majorly disappointed you so that you feel so insecure?
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    Oct 29, 2012, 02:54 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by Wondergirl View Post
    How old is he? How old are you?

    Has anyone ever majorly disappointed you so that you feel so insecure?
    We're in high school... Once a guy told me he liked me and he we were talking about when we're going to date and then he told me he didn't like me at all three day later. It hurt. But in this relationship yes, I've been very insecure... Mostly because my "best friend" was talking to him while we started dating. They talked about sex and he told her that he loves me but he still gets horny over her. We got it straightened out but I still feel like other girls are better than me.
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    Oct 29, 2012, 03:01 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by Forever7 View Post
    I still feel like other girls are better than me.
    But that's just not true. How can you spin this to your benefit and realize that you deserve good things such as loyalty and honesty?

    You don't need a guy to make you whole.

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