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Ishmael123 · May 19, 2012, 03:40 PM

Hi my name is Ishmael,

Ok so to begin with this I had a girlfriend we have been going out for 2 months then we broke up (I really don't want to talk about it) but then she said can be best friends at least then I said "sure ok" I never wanted for this break up to happen I love this girl to death I would honestly risk my life for her. But then soon after like a week ago she started to text me and we had a friendly good conversation and then I asked if I could still come over still she said sure yea. So I asked her if I could come over she said yea come over. I came over and I went in the house and we sat down on the couch and watched TV. Then we started talking about just anything.

Soon after she said let me see your phone I said no she said why I said I just don't want you to then she took my phone and just ran from me I ran like circles just to get her then she fell and I accidentally fell on her and she looked at my lips I could tell she still wanted to kiss but I wasn't looking straight at her then I looked at her and went to kiss her and then boom we kissed then we started to make out and stuff.

Then I would come over for like every day for the past four weeks and then one day I had to leave and me and her were walking out back to get my bike and she started to kiss me and when she backed up she wanted more of me. Then she said you're this close Ishmael she wouldn't tell me what I'm closed to but remember she was still my Ex at that time. Then when I was biking home her mom called and said did you come to my house and I said yes I did then she said I can trust you won't come over when I'm not home right and I said yes.

Then tomorrow when I got home from school I asked her if we can hangout today then she said I can't talk to you anymore I deleted your number please don't call again. I was just devastated when I heard her say that I was just hurting inside. Then I texted back and said "Ok I love you and I always will but I guess it's time for us to part once again I hope we can be together again someday".

That was my last communication that I had from her that day I was like really about to cry I was like hurt. Can anyone tell me what I should do because I'm really depressed about this and stressed? I'm in love with this girl and I don't want to lose her I already decided I want to be with her forever

talaniman · May 19, 2012, 05:26 PM

Better rethink this as it seems that its mama who has put and end to this romance, and you could get her in big trouble by trying to keep in touch with her.

Darn parents, right? Well she is their daughter!

Ishmael123 · May 23, 2012, 01:23 PM

I understand that but now since she told me to leave her alone I'm trying to leave her alone but then two days later she says "STOP TALKING TO ME AND LEAVE ME ALONE AND LEAVE MY BROTHER ALONE"and I say to myself wait aren't you the one who told me not to talk to you so why are you talking to. Honestly I want her back but she makes a little scene out of every little thing.
Also she tries to put me in a position where I can't get out of and then her friends start to gang up on me but the thing is when she she's make a scene out of every little thing like yesterday she got mad because her phone was to loud and she started to cry I'm like here let me see and she starts to scream I'm like what the hell is wrong with you. Me and my ex we act like married couples like no joke we argue and the start to make up then argue some more and she mostly makes a big deal out of the little things

Ishmael123 · May 23, 2012, 01:25 PM

Originally Posted by talaniman

Better rethink this as it seems that its mama who has put and end to this romance, and you could get her in big trouble by trying to keep in touch with her.

Darn parents, right? Well she is their daughter!

I understand that but now since she told me to leave her alone I'm trying to leave her alone but then two days later she says "STOP TALKING TO ME AND LEAVE ME ALONE AND LEAVE MY BROTHER ALONE"and I say to myself wait aren't you the one who told me not to talk to you so why are you talking to. Honestly I want her back but she makes a little scene out of every little thing.
Also she tries to put me in a position where I can't get out of and then her friends start to gang up on me but the thing is when she she's make a scene out of every little thing like yesterday she got mad because her phone was to loud and she started to cry I'm like here let me see and she starts to scream I'm like what the hell is wrong with you. Me and my ex we act like married couples like no joke we argue and the start to make up then argue some more and she mostly makes a big deal out of the little things

talaniman · May 23, 2012, 01:45 PM

Leaving her alone is the end of this drama and confusion.

Ishmael123 · May 23, 2012, 01:50 PM

Originally Posted by talaniman

Leaving her alone is the end of this drama and confusion.

But honestly if I do leave her alone she will start crawling back to me she's done it twice she will do it again.

talaniman · May 23, 2012, 02:13 PM

So what do you think is the right thing to do, about this typical teen drama? Keep it going, or stop being a part of it??

Your choice.

Ishmael123 · May 23, 2012, 02:30 PM

Originally Posted by talaniman

So what do you think is the right thing to do, about this typical teen drama? Keep it going, or stop being a part of it???

Your choice.

Well the choice is to stop. But I have come to far to get her back to me and I'm not going to give up and let my love go. Ill keep trying till I can't anymore for her.

talaniman · May 23, 2012, 02:33 PM

Then put up with the crap that comes with it then. Good luck.

Ishmael123 · May 23, 2012, 02:48 PM

Originally Posted by talaniman

Then put up with the crap that comes with it then. Good luck.

Thanks bro you really cheered me up thanks a lot

mmresd · May 23, 2012, 04:44 PM

The mistake you made is to continue communication with an ex, you are supposed to go no contact with an ex for exactly this reason. Just because an ex lets you come over to mess around doesn't mean that she wants to get back together with you, however, it normally creates what is called false hope in your mind. You need to back off completely, accept that you have ALREADY lost her, and move on with your life. Even if you are willing to risk your life for her and your feelings are immense for this girl, it is obvious that they are not mutual, and that puts you at a disadvantage, which is the reason of why you are now heart broken. Let time pass by, the stress and depressiveness will one day go away, we go through many break ups during our lifetime, this is just one of them, if you have been through any other ones, you would or should know that this will one day go away, no matter how strong your infatuation with a female is.

Ishmael123 · May 23, 2012, 08:58 PM

Originally Posted by mmresd

The mistake you made is to continue communication with an ex, you are supposed to go no contact with an ex for exactly this reason. Just because an ex lets you come over to mess around doesn't mean that she wants to get back together with you, however, it normally creates what is called false hope in your mind. You need to back off completely, accept that you have ALREADY lost her, and move on with your life. Even if you are willing to risk your life for her and your feelings are immense for this girl, it is obvious that they are not mutual, and that puts you at a disadvantage, which is the reason of why you are now heart broken. Let time pass by, the stress and depressiveness will one day go away, we go through many break ups during our lifetime, this is just one of them, if you have been through any other ones, you would or should know that this will one day go away, no matter how strong your infatuation with a female is.

Man as much as it sounds like I guess I reallly have to even though I really don't want to but if it has to be that way for the both of us I guess that's just how life is.

But what I don't understand the term false hope and you describe what your saying.