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    Jun 18, 2009, 01:02 AM
    How to choose between two guys
    Okay I just recently broke up with my boyfriend who I have been dating for 8 months now. At the beginning of our relationship his friend Casey liked me and instead I chose Joe. Then later on in the relationship with Joe I couldn't stop thinking about him for some reason. I like Casey and I still like Joe. Now I'm trying to choose between two guys who like me and I like them.

    What Do I do...

    :(
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    Jun 18, 2009, 01:23 AM

    Choose one or move on, alone.
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    Jun 18, 2009, 05:51 AM

    Leave them both alone. You seem dependent on something and jumping from one friend to another is a pretty poor idea, and can make things extremely awkward in future social situations.

    You just got out of an 8 month relationship and want to date the ex's friend? I would leave that situation untouched if I were you.
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    Jun 18, 2009, 05:53 AM

    Leave them both alone
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    Jun 18, 2009, 06:09 AM

    Date them both, and see who treats you better in the long run. Like who listens to u, remember your B-day and is around when you are sick.

    There are no rules that says U have to choose one util there is a proposal with a ring and one of them is legally ready to commit to u.

    Go for it girl.
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    Jun 18, 2009, 06:15 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by dazzling View Post
    Date them both, and see who treats u better in the long run. Like who listens to u, remember ur B-day and is around when u r sick.

    There r no rules that says U have to choose one util there is a proposal with a ring and one of them is legally ready to commit to u.

    Go for it girl.
    Date them both? I am sorry, but I completely disagree with everything you wrote on here. How old are you? You seem like a girl who thinks they can get anything they want by using two guys against each other, so good luck with that. It won't last once you start dating men, and not boys.
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    Jun 18, 2009, 06:26 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by dazzling View Post
    Date them both, and see who treats u better in the long run. Like who listens to u, remember ur B-day and is around when u r sick.

    There r no rules that says U have to choose one util there is a proposal with a ring and one of them is legally ready to commit to u.

    Go for it girl.
    There might not be any rules, but it's called HUMAN DECENCY. Dating two people until you have a ring on your finger? I would highly advise against this.

    If you're torn between the two, then I would suggest dating neither. Messing up a friendship isn't the best way to go.
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    Jun 18, 2009, 07:07 AM

    Okay, now your broken up with your boyfriend and wants his friend.

    Let me tell you something, even if you go out with his friend it might not last. He might just end of going with you for fun because after all you just dated his friend.
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    Jun 18, 2009, 08:01 AM

    You said you couldn't stop thinking about the other. What makes you think he is still thinking about you? He may no longer be interested in you given the circumstances.

    Who said you hold the power? There's always the chance that the friend may have the scruples to not date his pal's ex. Not all guys are creeps.
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    Jun 18, 2009, 08:10 AM
    Firstly you have to see b/w the who loves you the most,then be specific who do you like most out of two.Because a true lover is only who cares about u,wheather you are with him or not,he still loves you more than anyone.So u can decide which one of 2 is appropriate for this honour...
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    Jun 18, 2009, 11:46 AM

    How old are you? That's the fact that needs to be addressed.
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    Nov 27, 2009, 08:38 PM
    Ummm OK listin what you do is you talk and flirt with both then you figure out wich one likes you better tell them storys about your child life and see wich one responds to you or tell you about there child life then you will choose wich one you have more chemistry with and you like better then slowly break it to the other one

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