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luke_wang3 · Feb 10, 2009, 12:54 PM

Hi all.I have heard a lot about this site.I love a gal in my office and she is already in a relationship with a guy.and she knows that I love her a lot too bcoz I have done evrything for her like:
1.when she was not well,I always brought juices for her
2.I brought a cake on her birthday in office
3.gifted her teddy bear and all soft toys
4.came in my off for her just to let her take rest and many more things.
I don't know what she is up to.she said to me that I can love her but she cannot love me,she also told me that she like the way I love her and she really appreciate it.and by her behaviour I feel that she loves me bcoz when I try to ignore her every time she is always angry with me I don't know why?she is also jeleuos of some gals when I talk to them she ignore it by making fun of me with those gals.She also cares for me.Is she taking me as an option or playing with my feeling?what is she up to?and she knows my weakness too she knows that I cannot live without her so she really doesn't care when I'm angry she knows that I will come back to her on my own after my angryness.also wanted to tell you that I kissed her on her forehead and her cheeks and she didn't say anything but she didn't kissed me help me.dont know what this gal is up to.she may be playing with me but I still love her a lot and I cannot see her sad or cry just wanted to see her happy.

kctiger · Feb 10, 2009, 12:57 PM

Dude, you are not in love... you are obsessed. Get a life man, seriously. You are attached emotionally to someone you haven't even had a relationship with. This is borderline creepy man.

Romefalls19 · Feb 10, 2009, 12:58 PM

She is in a relationship, therefore off limits. You are entitled to your feelings but you need to take a giant step back because it's only going to end in heartache for you. She already told you she cannot love you.

SAB123 · Feb 10, 2009, 01:01 PM

It sounds to me your infatuated with this girl. And you are reading every thing she does and says the wrong way. You said yourself she is seeing another guy. I would just move on and find someone else. Another thing how long have you known this person?

spitvenom · Feb 10, 2009, 01:01 PM

Luke my man you need to leave this girl alone. She is in a relationship that is number 1. Number 2 she is just playing with your heart. She loves all the nice things you do for her but nothing more will come of it. I would stop with the cakes and Juices and anything else you do for her. I know it is rough but she is playing you.

luke_wang3 · Feb 10, 2009, 01:06 PM

Hey you all that mean I should ignore her.is it?I'm trying that.Ok as all say take a step back.I will set her free,but I know she is confuse bcoz she has make a deal with her boyfriend that he needs to be converted in christian if he wanted to marry her otherwise she is ready for break up with her.but one thing is in my favour I'm a christian already.do I get a chance?

kctiger · Feb 10, 2009, 01:09 PM

Did you read my post? I guess I wasn't clear...

Romefalls19 · Feb 10, 2009, 01:11 PM

Originally Posted by luke_wang3

hey u all that mean i should ignore her.is it?i m trying that.Ok as all say take a step back.i will set her free,but i know she is confuse bcoz she has make a deal with her boyfriend that he needs to be converted in christian if he wanted to marry her otherwise she is ready for break up with her.but one thing is in my favour i m a christian already.do i get a chance?

No

luke_wang3 · Feb 10, 2009, 01:13 PM

Yaa I know.thanx a ton you all,but it will take a lot of courage to ignore her,I know she will call me,then what should I do? if she does call me?and will she ever love me if she break up with her boyfriend?

SAB123 · Feb 10, 2009, 01:17 PM

Your thinking too much on something that's probably not going to happen?

Ana52408 · Feb 10, 2009, 01:23 PM

I think she's using you as a back up just in case she breaks up with this guy if she keeps on kind of flirting and stuff... So if back up is what you want to be then go ahead. But these people here all agree on one thing. And that is that she is playing you, she already said she cannot love you and your just obssesed not in love.