Should I Tell him.. that I like him?
I know this guy from 8-9 years.. He was my colleague and now only a friend. He lives and works in different country. But whenever he comes to my city.. where his parents stay.. he meets me.. We always have good time together.. He is very polite and honest kind of guy.. I have started feeling for him.. But I don't know what he feels for me.. may be I'm only a good friend to him.. he never said anything like.. he likes me or something.. he shared about his past affairs with me.. His parents are now looking for a bride for him... and he shares the details of every girl he meets for this purpose with me.. and I'm like OK.. I m somewhat feeling scared of rejection.. what if he says no.. should I wait for him to say something.. or should I tell him that I like him.. I have no idea how he will take this.. we are in touch on chats only.. and most of the time its me who initiates the chat.. but once its done.. he talks really nicely... when I ask him that he never initiates chat.. he responds like.. time zone difference.. and sometimes busy with work and other things.. but he do responds whenever I contact him... I feel butterflies in stomach when I see him :) how to take this further... I m hoping for something more than just friends with him.. and at the same time I don't want to spoil the friendship.. if he says no... may be it will leave impact on our friendship... what to do... please suggest...