How to accept that he is not worthy of my love?
I have been in a relationship for the past 4 years.Iinitially like every relationship it was all rosy till I discovered him flirting online with girls. That was like a turning point for the trust I have lost. Still I decided to continue though I was never able to bestow my trust on him, though our relationship was mostly a long distance one, I never thought of anybody else except him. We fought several times because of the frustration that creeps into me as he was often clumsy in contacting on his own. Still our relationship survived after some lovey dovey talks.. but what happened in past few months was simply horrendous.
I came to his long distant place and discovered his chats and intimate pics with some other girl, he was also searching a bride for himself on some matrimonial site. I was shattered to know all that. That day he cried and apologized for all the crap he had done to me. As I didn't want to lose him I gave him a second chance to get the things clear and be a nice man.
From that day onward I have seen no improvement in him as he didn't abide by what he said and I started feeling the same behavior he used to display when he was dating some other girl before. I truly loved him have been loyal never ever that of anybody else besides him. Now that I have told him that I can not bear anymore of his lies and have barred all the contacts. I'm not a able to accept why this happened to me. I feel so restless the whole day and have a major exam in a month want to study but still I have a ray of hope that may be someday he came to realize what he lost.
On one hand I want to come out of it, on the other hand I feel miserable and wants him back. Its getting so tough for me as I am obsessed with this that's every second. I don't have friends and family here, the place I have come to give my exam, and feels so depressed and lonely.