I met a man recently who is a terrific in many ways. He's divorced, but he only has good things to say about his ex-wife (who cheated on him). He has a child he adores. He is loving toward his extended family. He has a good job.
I went out with him a few times. After our second date, he started telling me how wonderful I am -- I mean really gushing. I think that I'm a good person, but I don't think that after only a few hours together he is in a position to judge me or anyone else in such an extremely positive way. I felt very uncomfortable.
I want to be in a relationship with a really good guy, but by coming on too strong so soon when we were just getting to know each other, he pushed me away.
I'm thinking about seeing him again. But, how can I stay interested in him when after just four dates he's left me in no doubt about his strong feelings for me and I feel like I haven't had much of a chance to see if I can develop feelings for him? The difference in our feelings is making me want to stay away from him. But, my wanting to develop a relationship with a good guy is making me think that I should keep trying with him in spite of feeling uncomfortable.
Any advice?