Boyfriend Help! What does he want?
Im having some pretty tough relationship troubles and would really appreciate any advice I can get.
My boyfriend and I started dating back in January and everything was great between but we were only together a month and he completely shut me out of his life with no explanation at all as to what I did wrong, wouldn't return my phone calls or texts and deleted me as a friend on Facebook and a couple weeks later I found out he was seeing someone else and moved on with my life.
Now after 2 months of not hearing from him at all he calls me and wants a chance to explain and I let him, and he says that the reason he shut me out of his life is because he had went through a rough patch in his life (lost his job, got involved pretty heavily into drugs) and he didn't want me to have to deal with that, that I had a good job, good life and I deserved someone better then that. But, now he has cleaned up his life, got a good job and got himself away from the drugs and he wanted a second chance.
So I decided to give him a second chance and for the first week things were really great between us again, but the last couple of days he has seemed kind of distant again, showing up late, not answering text messages and I don't know if I'm just being paranoid or if he's going to shut me out of his life again. Should I just wait it out and see what happens or was I a fool for giving this guy a second chance in the first place?