Our relationship is just starting. It's only been 1 year and a couple days, but we've known each other for 3 years. We are very affectionate with each other and anyone can instantly feel the connection when they are around us. Lately my girlfriend doesn't text me or talk to me on the phone like she normally does. If she's at my house our if I'm at her's, she's normal, however, she hardly acts the same in public. There have been some nights where she would say "I love you too" in an unsure/sad tone after I tell her that I love her. She doesn't like going out much and it's to the point where she has better fun with her friends. I try talking about this with her and all I get as a response is "I love you" or "I promise I'm fine". I try to put the spark back into her but now I don't know what to do anymore. I need help.

As a side note; talking to her about this upsets her. Sometimes she feels as if I don't trust her if I ask if there is something she doesn't like telling me.

Question for you, do you still love her?

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Originally Posted by mynameisblank

As a side note; talking to her about this upsets her. Sometimes she feels as if I don't trust her if I ask if there is something she doesn't like telling me.

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always give her the benefit of the doubt... but from experience... it seems like she's bored... or seeing someone else... only YOU could know the answer to this... its just a gut feeling dude... best of luck.

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Originally Posted by jarofhearts

Question for you, do you still love her?

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Yes, I still love her very much. I've proven to her that time after time but it's like she doesn't notice.

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Originally Posted by mynameisblank

Yes, I still love her very much. I've proven to her that time after time but it's like she doesn't notice.

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well then... id just call it quits... all the bull