How to know if I should break up with girlfriend. Please help
Hey everyone, thanks for reading. I'm 23 years old . My girlfriend is 21. We've been dating for just over 4 years and our relationship has been pretty good, we tend to fight a lot, I come from a family that never yells but hers does she she's very vocal with our fights. Anyway that's not a big deal . Over the last year our sex life has been brutal . We have sex MAYBE once every 3 weeks to a month. And she doesn't enjoy given head or handjobs and doesn't like doing anything else . At first it didn't bother me but now its really fustrating. Every time we hang out I bring it up and ask to do stuff and she gets mad because I'm always asking but its because we never do stuff! I feel like we've been drifting. I still love her but I can't live like this. I want to just try and tell her we should take a break because I need space to think about everything . What should I do? THANK YOU!!