I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years. I went on vacation for a week without him. When I came home I started cleaning the house. When I found the only picture of me in the house, had been put under the bathroom sink. (It was on the counter when I left) I asked him why he would do that? He laughed and said "I don't know what you're talking about". I asked again. He said because he didn't like looking at the black baby in the picture. (he's pretty racist) I showed him the picture and asked him to point out the black baby. (there isn't one) He said "Oh I thought that was a black kid". (The baby is whiter than I am) Then I found mascara smudges on my side of our bed. I confronted him about that. He says they're PROBABLY mine. But my question is, how did I not notice this before I left? And, how have I slept in that bed on those sheets for more than a month and never left a mark on them. I've never left a mark on bedding before... ever! I asked him if he would tell me the truth even if he did cheat. His response... "probably not. Why would I rat on myself?" He won't make eye contact with me and he just keeps laughing and calling me retarded, and stupid etc. But he won't answer a direct question. I guess the way this puzzle fits in my head with the mascara magically appearing the same week that I'm on vacation and the that my picutre was placed under the bathroom sink is that he did cheat. I don't know how else to logically put all these pieces together without coming to that conclusion. It's a little too convenient. Am I crazy or just unlucky? Please help.
