OK guys so me and my boyfriend have been together for 8 yrs we are high school sweet hearts and recently had a child together. A about a year in a half ago he started a new job and became real cool friends with a female co-worker which he never told me about I started getting a bad feeling something wasn't right I decided to follow my instinct I found out they spoke on the phone while he would commute back home which is about an hour in a half a way and also they would car pool. When I asked him about it he said they were just friends and that I was over reacting so I stated it that was the case why was it I never heard about her he said it wasn't important. Fine he continues doing what he does and they begin sending messages to each other as well I confront him again he says I'm over reacting there just friends. Recently she quit her job and they no longer work together boy was I excited. So I thought it turns out there still speaking mind you his excuse through all this drama was that they worked together and helped each other out whatever so when I ask him this time what's your excuse he says there just friends she's a cool person and they keep in contact which I wouldn't have a problem with if he would just tell me things instead of hiding them recently she called him at 10:30pm and he mised the call so the next morning I came across it I call her back let it ring 2xs she calls it back in one second and this was at 6:30 in the moring talk about she really needed to talk to him I was in shock he says I'm over reacting honestly I'm tired of the drama advice please!! Never seen her a day in my life