When relationship turns too serious before your ready.
This is just a hypothetical question. Many times I see that when you are dating someone it just turns serious before both parties are ready for that. Whether it is due to a period together or because one person brings up marriage or kids or some type of future together.
I do notice a recurring theme on this thread and I guess my situation was similar but I don't want to really incorporate me too much because I wanted this thread more general.
But for me I was always against something serious and kept moving slow and the woman took it serious and when she finally got me closer to her level was where it became hard and the smothering entered where both of us felt like we knew we had each other and became not as fun.
So my point is when that happens when your partner brings it up how do you combat that without coming across as a piece of crap and keep it moving at a slower pace. Because once you take it too serious is when it is hard to keep the relationship going unless there is true love and even then nothing is forever. It takes work.