Can I save this relationship
I have lived with my girl for nine years she moved out in June because I didn't show her love, value her or put her first in my life, this has been the past three years I also drowned my problems in beer. I have stopped drinking have gone to councling attend AA. We see each other every Wednesday night and every weekend are spent together, she tells me she doesn't trust I won't go back to my old ways , I have apologized, have been showing and telling her how much I love and need her. I am 50 she is 49 we are not exclusive yet she has a friend for sex only that bothers me I'm not sure what else I can do to win her back any advice.