My girlfriend says that she don't know that she loves me or not,when I asked her that why you acepted me then she says that I accepted you just because you love me a lot ,after short term relation she said that I want to be your friend ,but I think that she never ever loved me and there is someone in her life now due to which she is doing such strange things,what should I do... I just love her a lot and thought that she is the right one for me..

Although you may believe she is the one for you doesn't mean it's true. You cannot force someone to feel the same way about you that you do them. I was in two relationships where both the guys forced me into telling them that I loved them, when in reality I never ended up feeling that way about either of them, if I didn't tell them I loved them whenever they said it to me, it would blow up into a huge fight. I was with one of these guys for four years, && the other for a year && a half. They both claimed I was their true love && the one they were meant to be with. But just because this is the way they felt doesn't mean it's the way I had to feel.

She probably pushed you away && told you she only wanted to be friends because the feelings from you were coming on too strongly for her, && she may have tried to feel the same way for you, but she just didn't.

You need to give her space. If she actually does want to be friends, then be happy with that. If you love something set it free, if it's meant to be it will come back to you. If you love her as much as you say you do, be happy if she's happy.

By the sounds of it she was with you because you gave her attention && told her you loved her, but that's not how she felt, it's just what she wanted someone else to feel for her. You are better off moving on, keeping her as a friend if you can do that without it hurting either of you.

There are plenty of girls out there, I'm sure you'll find someone that you can love that will feel the same way about you.

Good luck!

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Originally Posted by Tinkerbell2004

She probably pushed you away && told you she only wanted to be friends because the feelings from you were coming on too strongly for her, && she may have tried to feel the same way for you, but she just didn't.

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This is the response I got from her best friend after the breakup, I can't understand the meaning of it, will it be possible to elaborate this.

That means she doesn't love you the way you love her. You're in a one-way relationship. Do you really want to stay in a loveless relationship?

Save yourself of more heartbreak and make it a clean break so that you can find someone who actually does love you back.

I completely agree with I Wish. You told her you loved her && she never felt that way, so the feelings from you were scary to her. But since you seemed to care about her so much she stayed in the relationship to see if there was anyway she could love you back. But once she realized that she just didn't && that she only liked you as a friend, she decided it was time to get out && in the end it would be better for both of you. Now you can both go out && see other people && eventually be in a loving relationship where it's equal love, not one sided.