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Im dying I did something wrong but I was by mistake I didn't mean it and the person I love said that he can't forgive me anymore and he can't trust me tell what to do to make him trust me again and forgive me I reallllllllly love him and I can't live without him I love him because he's my liiiiiiiiiiiife please I'm dying I need help :'(
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Well so we can help you tell us what you did that hurts him...
Hmmm I didn't really mean what I did I saw someone from the church and he wanted to talk to me but I didn't had time so he said I want to tell you information about something and I said not now and he asked me for my number and I gave it to him
But he's only someone from the church but my boyfriend got mad on me and he said that he can't forgive me and he can't trust me anymore:(( :'(
What you boyfriend is a really jelouse type well al I could tell you is that you showed try to explain it to him face to face ad if he doenn't lisen is just that he was looking for a reason to break up... if I was you I would just moe on...
Noooo I was on my way because me and my boyfriend were going to movies and I told him everything but he got really angry at me :( I don't know what to do to make him forgive me and trust me back :(((
And we didn't brake up we still together but he can't forgive me because of hat I did and he can't trust me :(
Well damm I been in this situation but I think my ex-bfs were dumm because they always forgive me... well tell your boyfriend this ''if you love me forgive me lets start all over and fix things because I'm not perfect I make mistakes and one of them was hurting the person I love and that's you... ''
But I told him and he said I did I forgave you alooooooot but this time I can't
I'm dying I swear by god I haven't been eating for yesterday and I'm sick too :(
Well just leave him and move on he don't deserve you because if you love somebody you will forgive him/her no matter what...
So you think its okay to suffer from his over reacting to an innocent exchange? I don't. I think you have apologized and explained enough, and if he can't forgive and say he is sorry for over reacting then you need to think long and hard about being with a fellow who makes you suffer for small things like this.
If you accept bad behavior, you get more of it.
Sort of like trying to understand why people keep using chat/text, and bad grammar and spelling, know it will be deleted as your other posts where.
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I know and it was my mistake and he didn't let me to explain more to him but I did I apologize and he said leave alone for a few days and I will see what I need to do what do you think? Is there any chance that he will forgive me and trust me back??
Sure he will, after he makes you suffer for an innocent mistake. You just sit, and wait for him to decide whether you are worth it, or not.
:'( I hope so because I'm dying without him :((
OMGosh, I was being sarcastic my dear, but it seems you put him above your own dignity, and self respect, and that makes this a very unhealthy relationship.
This time it was an innocent mistake by you, but what will it be next time? And there will be a next time.
No I did it but by mistake I didn't mean it and I promissed him that it won't happene next time becausehe is my life and he loves me true love but hhe said why did you do that :((
That's my point, he will turn everything, and anything against you, and when he gets mad or upset, it will ALWAYS be YOUR fault, never his, because in this case he OVER REACTED.
I know so what can I do in this case because I can't leave without him he's my life, my family he's everything in this world for me I done it before I tried to lose myself and I don't want it to happene again but if he left me I will please help me :((
Do you realize you sound like a desperate junkie who needs their dope??
I don't know and he being like that because my best friend loves him but he dosen't care about her but everyone knows that we are not together anymore but that's not true and promissed him that if he said everything is finished like it's the end of the line I won't stay alive because I love him , I love him because he's my life not I love my life because my life is him I hope you understand me :(:(
Sweetie, how old are you?Quote:
Originally Posted by BrOkEn_StAr
You seem very young. Trust me, when you are my age, you will realize that there are plenty of men out there.
This boy is not the one and only. You are consuming him way too much and losing yourself in the process.
But I can't move on I love him he's my life :( :( and I haven't even been eating from a few days :( and I'm sick
What mistake did you make? Im confused?
You gave some guy your number, is that the mistake?
Your bf's a meat head.
Why do you let someone treat you like this?
So your supposed to walk on eggshells so he doesn't carry on. Very controlling. Id be careful if I were you.
PS: He isn't your liiiiiiife. You are your own liiiiiife. Start living it without guys like him.
But I tried to but I couldn't and I'm sick of this life and I haven't been eating and drinking since I was with him you can't believe it but he is my life my life worth nothing without him:(:(:(
Well as Tal would say: Time to get off the pity pot!
We have all gone through this. All of us. Or we wouldn't be here.
Ive ended a 13 year relationship recently and it was the most painful thing I've ever had to do. But it needed to be done.
Yes you will be miserable, but, day by day, one minute at a time you'll begin to get happier and forget the useless jerk who made you miserable in the first place.
Why don't you make a plan to do one thing every day. Go for a walk, go to the movies, have lunch, go shopping, exercise!!
Don't sit around girl. That's the worst thing you could do!!
It takes time. Give yourself the time to realise that you deserve better than him. Because at the moment I don't think you believe that.
I don't know if I should be happy or not because I love him and the time I was saying to him that you are free I was saying but with my tears I can't think that I could live without him and I think that I can't move on without him please tell me what can I do that I could get over it? I sweeeeeeeeeer by god I sweeeeeer by mum that I love him more than everything in my life :( :(:(:(:(
:( now I ended everything but I can't stooop crying and thinking and hitting my sefl :( because I love him :(
Break-ups are always hard and take time to get over. You've got to spend a lot of time with friends and family to get through the rough times.
You said that you didn't know whether to be happy or not, so I assume there were things you disliked about your relationship. Would you provide a few more details about your relationship? Was he a cheat? Was he controlling? Why did you break up?
I breake up with him because I did something by mistake and he said he won't forgive me and he won't trust me anymore but what I did was I gave my number to someone that was from the church and he didn't talk to me because of that:(
How old are You?
I'm 17
The only thing worse than a break up is a funeral, but we do grieve our losses, and move on with our lives, and find happiness. I am not sorry for your loss, he was an immature idiot who kept you under his thumb with no love for you, or caring. He was selfish, and controlling, and way to jealous. Young and immature, in short, but you were way to willing to put yourself second, and go along with his bad behavior, for this to be a healthy love. So I am sorry for what you are going through, but not sorry to see you break up.
Maybe you cannot see this now, but will in the future, but you will have better options for a real love now that you have cut him out of your life. You loved him a lot more than he loved you, and you deserve better, now you can get it, as soon as you learn to love yourself enough to protect yourself from immature guys like him.
Is this your first love, or first break up? They always seem to hurt the most.
Well broken_star I have been in this problem twice and I just had to move on I found this good guy that shows me that he loves me even though this boy is getting in our relationship telling me to leave my boyfriend and be with him but its not going to happen because I'm happy with my boyfriend... well how old are you because you sound young like me I'm 16 and I act like a older person because I been in so many situations that I know how life is with a man specially the ones like your boyfriend... just move on you'll see it will be worth it...
:( will because I loved him and I do love him and I will love him till the last day of my life I was really and I was OK with what he was doing to me because I didn't want to losssssse himmmmmmm :( he was only person that I could feel OK when
I talk to him because I have a hard life since I was 4 years old and everyone knows that its true I have family but I always feel soooo lonely because I had no one to look after me my parents were busy with themselves :(
That's why I gave all my love and life to hiiiiiim :((
I'm 17 and its to hard when you give someone your life and you love like I did its tooooooo hard for me to move on :(
Of course its hard. Break ups are hard to go through for any human. It hurts like hell, but in time, you heal. It does get better. When you have cried enough, you move on. Then you look back and learn, and you grow.
You don't have to take crap to be loved, just love yourself, and do the right things for yourself. You are to young to be addicted, and dependent on a guy so moody.
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OK what I need help with is that I breake up with my boyfriend its was because a mistake I did and it wasn't a big mistake.The mistake I did I wasn't really a big mistake that I should be punished in a bad way what I did was that someone from the church came up to me and he asked for my number because he wanted to talk to me and I did gave it to him. I told my boyfriend about that because I never keep something away from him. And he went like I can't trust you and I can't forgive you anymore. And today he came up to me he said I will give you last chance that you should change yourself and never do this staff again. What he need is he giving me last chance to change myself for him I have to prove it. What I need help with is should I say I will change myself for you because of the mistake I did or I should say no because I haven't done a big mistake to punish me in a bad way?? Please I need to know what to do because I love him and I can't live with out him :(
You said your boyfriend said he couldn't trust you or forgive you anymore. What has happened in the past for him to think you're untrustworthy?
IF indeed all you did was give your phone number to a church member, then I think your boyfriend is being controlling and unreasonable. If that's the case, then I'd move on without him. You don't need someone that makes mountains out of molehills... your life would be miserable with him.
You have nothing to change, or feel bad about at all and do not deserve his bad behavior. Stand up for yourself to this bully and tell him to get over himself, and hit the road, because you will not allow him to treat you badly, over NOTHING but his own warped way of thinking. Tell him to grow up and at least act like a caring loving man, because you have no time for his BS!! Then walk away.Quote:
hmmm I didn't really mean what I did I saw someone from the church and he wanted to talk to me but i didn't had time so he said i wanna tell u information about something and i said not now and he asked me for my number and i gave it to him
But he's only someone from the church but my boyfriend got mad on me and he said that he can't forgive me and he can't trust me anymore( :'(
When you allow bad behavior, that's exactly what you will get!
Do Not go back to him. He is trying to control your behaviour. You did nothing wrong... he has made it out to be something horrible. I would wonder whether HE has something to hide if he got so bothered by a guy at your church wanting to tell you something.
If he can't trust you after something like that, tells you that he will give you one more chance, and that you have to "prove" you are trustworthy, why would you want to be with him? Why do you give him so much control over you and how you feel?
You said yourself that your upbringing was not the best, you didn't feel people were there for you and that you have poured all of that need into your boyfriend. That's not love... that's desperation. I bet you give, give, give... what do you get in return?
You felt family wasn't there for you and now you are paniced that he won't be there for you either. You are clinging onto him and he is feeding into that need by manipulating you and the relationship.
You are like a puppet and he is controlling the strings!
Take back your life girl! You need to be strong and confident in yourself, by yourself, before you can be in a relationship that will be healthy for you. He has done you a favour. You are now free to get strong.
Learn from this relationship... learn how you want to be treated by someone, how you deserve respect, trust, and true caring. It's time you start receiving some!
Soooo he is... hs already controlling me by making love him more and more than anything and everything and even more than my life :(
:( but he's my only person who I feel safe and I feel good and I feel that I have feeling and I have life when I'm next to him :( I need something that makes me t leave him but I have to make me to hate me first because I don't want to hurt him
But I will be always in his loooooooove :((
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