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Why are women obsessed with money

Women want money and love

Your painting this picture with a very broad brush. Sweeping generalizations will get you in trouble.

I know many men who feel the same.

Many women want love because it is in their nurturing nature.

My experience is that women waznt money first now,love after

Seems like you've been meeting the wrong women. Not all women are like that! I know of plenty who are happy with love and just enough money to get by.

What happened to your wife? https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/marria...ml#post2231568

Why do blonds with nice breasts always wear high heels and perfume

I find blond women are like this why is it ?

Sweeping generalizations again.

That is a generalization that I personally find offensive.

Not all blond women who are well endowed wear high heels and perfume

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Originally Posted by J_9

Sweeping generalizations again.

That is my experience it may be ageneralisation I'm seeking to understand why this is?

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Originally Posted by xXxEmOxXxPrInCeSsxXx

That is a generalization that I personally find offensive.

Not all blond women who are well endowed wear high heels and perfume

That is my experience

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Originally Posted by J_9

Seems like you've been meeting the wrong women. Not all women are like that! I know of plenty who are happy with love and just enough money to get by.

Yes but all the women I meet are 1 money 2 love

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Originally Posted by J_9

What happened to your wife? https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/marria...ml#post2231568

I'm living with her,that doesn't change the fact she's after money

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Originally Posted by scullions

that is my experience

So, I would guess that you only see blondes in an environment where they are required to dress and look a certain way. Many professional settings require women (of all hair colorings) to wear high-heels with perfume and cosmetics.

That speaks more for your level of 'experience' than it does about blondes in general.

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Originally Posted by xXxEmOxXxPrInCeSsxXx

That is a generalization that I personally find offensive.

Not all blond women who are well endowed wear high heels and perfume

I'm sorry if you find it offensive it happens to be my experience

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Originally Posted by Cat1864

So, I would guess that you only see blondes in an environment where they are required to dress and look a certain way. Many professional settings require women (of all hair colorings) to wear high-heels with perfume and cosmetics.

That speaks more for your level of 'experience' than it does about blondes in general.

No I just find blonde women are that way

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Originally Posted by scullions

no i just find blonde women are that way

Then I know a lot of blondes who would be offended by your statements. Myself included.

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Originally Posted by scullions

that is my experience it may be ageneralisation im seeking to understand why this is?

Okay who dumped you? Whoever did BRAVO!

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Originally Posted by J_9

Then I know a lot of blondes who would be offended by your statements. Myself included.

Again I'm sorry if your offended it is my experience and that's the truth

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Originally Posted by Kitkat22

Okay who dumped you? Whoever did BRAVO!

I'm not dumped I'm ahappily married man which is why I can risk being honest

Thanks for 'sharing' your p e r s o n a l opinion-apart from that,did you have a specific question/problem that you would like our opinions on?

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Originally Posted by scullions

again im sorry if your offended it is my experience and thats the truth

Dropped by a blonde! :eek:

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Originally Posted by amicon

Thanks for 'sharing' your p e r s o n a l opinion-apart from that,did you have a specific question/problem that you would like our opinions on?

Its not an opinion its my experience which is real not an opînion which is an idea;
Yes I wish to find out why certain women are acertain way

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Originally Posted by scullions

its not an opinion its my experience which is real not an opînion which is an idea;
yes i wish to find out why certain women are acertain way

Come on tell us a beautiful blonde dropped you for a rich guy!
CALL 1-800-waah!:rolleyes:

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Originally Posted by Kitkat22

Okay who dumped you? Whoever did BRAVO!

He's been celebate for 20 years. He said so in another thread.

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Originally Posted by NeedKarma

He's been celebate for 20 years. He said so in another thread.

Do you think he hates women or he needs to find one?

Ok as a blonde woman, who wears high heels and cosmetics as well as perfume, I am mildly annoyed.

That's like saying all men want is sex.

You need to get out more, try new environments. Try meeting different people. Not all blonde women only care about money. Now speaking only for myself, If I were to choose a partner the first thing I look at is compatibility. With compatibility comes is he able to provide. It’s instinct for people to find someone they are physically attracted to, most people like finding healthy partners. I would not date someone who would be a drain on me. Example: someone with no job, someone who doesn’t have a steady income, someone who is happy just scraping by, living paycheck to paycheck. Not saying I haven’t been in the situation where I was living paycheck to paycheck, but I have picked myself up from that spot in life and would not want to be there again.

Now money isn’t the only important thing to me But I, owning my own house, car, and lots of other extra’s want someone who is able to contribute to the relationship, not leech off me. I am looking for an EQUAL partner.
Reverse the situation here, would you date someone, to potentially marry them if they were un employed and had nothing to give back in the relationship?

Sex, money, and love plays a huge part of who we are as humans. It's only natural to crave love and affection, and some women DO like to have lots of money, and there are lots of men out there who are more than happy to give them just that.

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Originally Posted by Aurora_Bell

Ok as a blonde woman, who wears high heels and cosmetics as well as perfume, I am mildly annoyed.

That's like saying all men want is sex.

You need to get out more, try new environments. Try meeting different people. Not all blonde women only care about money. Now speaking only for myself, If I were to choose a partner the first thing I look at is compatibility. With compatibility comes is he able to provide. It’s instinct for people to find someone they are physically attracted to, most people like finding healthy partners. I would not date someone who would be a drain on me. Example: someone with no job, someone who doesn’t have a steady income, someone who is happy just scraping by, living paycheck to paycheck. Not saying I haven’t been in the situation where I was living paycheck to paycheck, but I have picked myself up from that spot in life and would not want to be there again.

Now money isn’t the only important thing to me But I, owning my own house, car, and lots of other extra’s want someone who is able to contribute to the relationship, not leech off me. I am looking for an EQUAL partner.
Reverse the situation here, would you date someone, to potentially marry them if they were un employed and had nothing to give back in the relationship?

Sex, money, and love plays a huge part of who we are as humans. It's only natural to crave love and affection, and some women DO like to have lots of money, and there are lots of men out there who are more than happy to give them just that.

Have to spread the rep, but very well said!

Just how many woman do you know that way, that makes you so experienced? Are you cheating on your celibate wife, or something? Or have a fetish for good smelling blonde's? Do you work around a lot of these females? Or is it as I suspect, your experience is based solely on the one female you know, your wife.

If that's the case you have a very narrow field of experience, that doesn't justify your broad brush painting of nearly a third of the female population, and the images on TV, (or porn) doesn't count as EXPERIENCE.

Explain your experience with facts, or shut the FREAK UP, and deal with the female you live with. Maybe charge her for sexual favors if its money she wants.

Can't rep you yet Tal but you nailed it!

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Originally Posted by Kitkat22

Come on tell us a beautiful blonde dropped you for a rich guy!!
CALL 1-800-waah!:rolleyes:

Nurturing woman just enjoying negative thoughts

Wow, your experience must be TV because in real life people vary in many ways. You seem like you are just bitter towards women in general. You need to think before you speak because you sound like an idiot

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Originally Posted by Aurora_Bell

Ok as a blonde woman, who wears high heels and cosmetics as well as perfume, I am mildly annoyed.

That's like saying all men want is sex.

You need to get out more, try new environments. Try meeting different people. Not all blonde women only care about money. Now speaking only for myself, If I were to choose a partner the first thing I look at is compatibility. With compatibility comes is he able to provide. It’s instinct for people to find someone they are physically attracted to, most people like finding healthy partners. I would not date someone who would be a drain on me. Example: someone with no job, someone who doesn’t have a steady income, someone who is happy just scraping by, living paycheck to paycheck. Not saying I haven’t been in the situation where I was living paycheck to paycheck, but I have picked myself up from that spot in life and would not want to be there again.

Now money isn’t the only important thing to me But I, owning my own house, car, and lots of other extra’s want someone who is able to contribute to the relationship, not leech off me. I am looking for an EQUAL partner.
Reverse the situation here, would you date someone, to potentially marry them if they were un employed and had nothing to give back in the relationship?

Sex, money, and love plays a huge part of who we are as humans. It's only natural to crave love and affection, and some women DO like to have lots of money, and there are lots of men out there who are more than happy to give them just that.

Yes I understand that it's the obsession with money with some women

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Originally Posted by talaniman

Just how many woman do you know that way, that makes you so experienced?? Are you cheating on your celibate wife, or something? Or have a fetish for good smelling blonde's? Do you work around a lot of these females? Or is it as I suspect, your experience is based solely on the one female you know, your wife.

If thats the case you have a very narrow field of experience, that doesn't justify your broad brush painting of nearly a third of the female population, and the images on TV, (or porn) doesn't count as EXPERIENCE.

Explain your experience with facts, or shut the FREAK UP, and deal with the female you live with. Maybe charge her for sexual favors if its money she wants.

For asenior relationship expert shut the freak up seems very professional,
No its not my wife the aggression this is bringing are you afraid to face reality it seems most blonds are

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Originally Posted by Romefalls19

Wow, your experience must be TV because in real life people vary in many ways. You seem like you are just bitter towards women in general. You need to think before you speak because you sound like an idiot

There's so many angry relationship experts ,I wonder about your qualifications as relationship experts

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Originally Posted by scullions

nurturing woman just enjoying negative thoughts

Have to have at least one negative thought a day... Sorry you feel that all women are after money. NOT TRUE>>Why would you even say something that put all women in the same category? I really would be interested in knowing why you feel this way. Contrary to what you believe not all women are gold diggers and yes we are nurturers, we are the ones who carry a child for nine months in our body and when you are a mother nurturing is part of that. We don't fake it it's a natural response... The Relation Experts on this forum are the best. You just don't want to hear someone who knows what their talking about so knock it with the slurs against the people here.

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Originally Posted by Kitkat22

Have to have at least one negative thought a day...Sorry you feel that all women are after money. NOT TRUE>>Why would you even say something that put all women in the same category? I really would be interested in knowing why you feel this way. Contrary to what you believe not all women are gold diggers and yes we are nurturers, we are the ones who carry a child for nine months in our body and when you are a mother nurturing is part of that. We don't fake it it's a natural response........

I never said all women just the women I've experienced

Why are women obsessed with money
Why do blonds with nice breasts always wear high heels and perfume

Both statements are by you

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Originally Posted by scullions

i never said all women just the women ive experienced

Because these are tough times and the women I meet are that way,it doesn't do any one any good pretending that isn't so least of all you;

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Originally Posted by Romefalls19

why are women obsessed with money
why do blonds with nice breasts always wear high heels and perfume

Both statements are by you

Yes that's true why are you counting are you filing alaw suite

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Originally Posted by Romefalls19

why are women obsessed with money
why do blonds with nice breasts always wear high heels and perfume

Both statements are by you

Not another relationship expert remind me to avoid them

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Originally Posted by scullions

theres so many angry relationship experts ,i wonder about your qualifications as relationship experts

Well, the first big qualification is that we live in real life, not some made up life where all big breasted blondes wear high heels and perfume and don't care about love, they want money

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Originally Posted by scullions

because these are tough times and the women i meet are that way,it doesnt do any one any good pretending that isnt so least of all you;

yes thats true why are you counting are you filing alaw suite

not another relationship expert remind me to avoid them

Actually because you claimed you said in your experience, which you did not in those two comments.

I find scullions wording to be very interesting. His money-loving wife is 'celebate', but he just claims to be 'human'. Makes me wonder just where he gets his 'experience'.

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Originally Posted by scullions

my wife loves me but i need sensual life shes celibate we agreed this 20 years ago its just im human

I think scullion is looking for a 'reactions' not advice. Better entertainment value for a bored individual.

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Originally Posted by scullions

because these are tough times and the women i meet are that way,it doesn't do any one any good pretending that isnt so least of all you;

You do not make any sense at all! Someone who is an EXPERT IN RELATIONSHIPS IS TRYING TO HELP YOU. LISTEN TO THE PEOPLE WHO ARE EXPERTS and stop making asinine remarks about them. You need help:( I am not an expert, but ene I know you are seriously mad at the world

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Originally Posted by Cat1864

I think scullion is looking for a 'reactions' not advice. Better entertainment value for a bored individual.

Many schools are out for spring break you know. :rolleyes:

How about qualifying your very suspect EXPERIENCES, with more than one liners, AND SHOW US FACTS.

It just occurred to me: prostitutes sometimes are sometimes blonde, they wear high heels, and are only interested in money for "sensualness". Hmmmm... :)